Did I cheat?

[mickii]

Last night I went out and partied with my dad and sister for her birthday while my wife is out of town. At the first bar I had a hot blond I used to work with hitting on me. She couldn't keep her hands off of me and actually was making me nervous because I thought she was going to start kissing me. I am a big wussy so I made an excuse to avoid her and dodged the situation. It was no strings sex passed up by me. Someone boot me in the balls. Anyway we moved on to another bar and I danced with my sisters friend who is another good looking blond. My wife would consider this act alone cheating. By the time we hit the third bar this girl was so drunk she was letting me feel her up and down. Should I feel bad about this or is this standard? No pics, sorry. They were nice and big though and I wish I had pics of them.

[guids]

meh, whether you did or not dont matter, your marriage is in shambles anyway, you should just get divorced, and banned.

[pokerbobo]

You did not have sexual relations with that woman, miss lewinsky, not ever.

But then again, it depends on what the meaning of is, is.

[Johnny Drama]

feeling up another woman while your wife is out of town? hmm....that's a tough one......

[27offsuit]

Not cheating, but had you cheated you would feel like [censored] at this moment.



Also, what are your thoughts on wife going out and getting felt up by some guy she's dancing with at her third bar after getting lit all night?

I thought so...

[Zurvan]

If your wife considers it cheating, nobody else's opinion matters, does it?

[A S U]

To me cheating is kissing +. So IMO you didn't cheat, but you are a total jerk and if it was the other way around, you would be having a cow.

[eastcoaster]

It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

It only matters what your wife thinks.

If she considers dancing with another woman 'cheating', it stands to reason that she probably feels the same if you fondled another woman's jibbly jubblies.

No worries though. The reason why your wife is out of town is probably so she can get her uterus properly poked with sausage.

[Dids]

"I danced with my sisters friend who is another good looking blond. My wife would consider this act alone cheating. "

Your wife is an idiot. Go back, nail both blondes and don't marry simpletons.

[Leaky Eye]

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If your wife considers it cheating, nobody else's opinion matters, does it?

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His opinion also matters. Though he should express it to her directly rather than get lit, do something stupid, and later decide if he crossed the line.

If my wife got drunk and did that one time I wouldn't be thrilled, but I wouldn't make a big deal about it. If it was repeated behavior it would be a huge problem because she would be consistently exposing herself to risk of going to far.