Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.

[GimmickAccount#7]

So I'll try to make this short...

Been with the gf > 5yrs, love her to death, plan getting engaged soon. I've never cheated on her before.

Last week a friend of a friend was visiting the area and I was asked to show her around. I never met this girl before. We had a good time all week and on the last night she was here I ended up hooking up with her (didn't bang her though).

Here is my dilemma...

I liked it. I like it ALOT. I probably would have [censored] her if I had the chance but the circumstances precluded me. I don't really feel guilty about it either.

So, advice from those who have been there/done that...should I be worried?

Like I said I love my gf to death and want to marry her, but now that I've fooled around a bit I feel like I want to do it agian.

Like I said I've never cheated at all before so this is all kinda new to me. Should I just write it off as a one time thing and go back to being faithful, or should I maybe get some fooling around out of my system before I actually get married? If so do I tell my gf or just see if I can get away with it?

[IcarusJam]

Threesome.

[holyfield5]

fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this:

1. Do Not Get Caught
2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently

[diamonddawg]

tell her & she's either going to dump you or, if she's doesn't, how can you respect someone who wouldn't.
u rn't rdy for marriage. period.

[doubLe a tom]

Hmm, I dont really know what to tell you, but heres an interesting fact:

1 in 5,000 North Atlantic lobsters are born bright blue.

[Grey]

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fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this:

1. Do Not Get Caught
2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently

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If you're going to marry this girl, it's going to be very very very hard not to get caught, so have backup plans, etc.

I've only been faithful in about 20% of my relationships, and among all those times I've cheated, I've gotten caught a lot. It's surprisingly hard not to get caught because women are paranoid. So be prepared for that. The hardest is when you're lying to both girls because they're both actively trying to find each other.

[holyfield5]

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fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this:

1. Do Not Get Caught
2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently

[/ QUOTE ]qft

If you're going to marry this girl, it's going to be very very very hard not to get caught, so have backup plans, etc.

I've only been faithful in about 20% of my relationships, and among all those times I've cheated, I've gotten caught a lot. It's surprisingly hard not to get caught because women are paranoid. So be prepared for that.

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it gets hard to do it when you live together, but if you think ahead its not all that hard. If you arent living together its cake. Assuming marriage would be pretty tough unless it was just an incidental hook up though.

[Monster207]

Same situation happened with me 6 months ago, been with girl 4.5 years and i cheated on her once. keep your mouth shut about it and if you actually do love her stay faithful.. the other path blows... not in a good way.

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[Figure8]

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Hmm, I dont really know what to tell you, but heres an interesting fact:

1 in 5,000 North Atlantic lobsters are born bright blue.

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Wow, that's interesting.