What do you call this?mental disease?

[singasong]

hi,I was wondering what do you call this situation-you like somebody a lot but dare not tell him/her nor even talk to him/her a word. He/she is in your mind all day and all night and drive you crazy. How do you call this? Is it a mental disease? What could you do but to escape from him/her?

Have you had ever run upon this situation? What did you do to tackle it?

[Pauwl]

A crush? Possibly Social Anxiety Disorder

[Rduke55]

It's called being 14.

It's usually cured with time.

[Phil153]

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Have you had ever run upon this situation?

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Yes

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What did you do to tackle it?

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Had sex

[Lestat]

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It's called being 14.

It's usually cured with time.

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I don't think you need to be 14 to develop a crush on someone. It can happen at any age.

[Rduke55]

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It's called being 14.

It's usually cured with time.

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I don't think you need to be 14 to develop a crush on someone. It can happen at any age.

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But like this?

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but dare not tell him/her nor even talk to him/her a word. He/she is in your mind all day and all night and drive you crazy.

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[Hopey]

The only solution is to kill the object of your fixation. Or the President. Whatever's easiest.

[Lestat]

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It's called being 14.

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I don't think you need to be 14 to develop a crush on someone. It can happen at any age.

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But like this?

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but dare not tell him/her nor even talk to him/her a word. He/she is in your mind all day and all night and drive you crazy.

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I was just trying to give OP a sincere response.

I've met girls who have occupied my mind for brief periods. The difference is I'll eventually act on it (such as ask her out). If that doesn't work, I forget about it.

So I assume what's making you call OP immature is:

<font color="blue"> but dare not tell him/her nor even talk to him/her a word. He/she is in your mind all day and all night and drive you crazy. </font>

Maybe so, but there are people who are severely shy or have other personality disorders that make it terribly difficult for them to confront women. OR... To forget about a woman after being rejected. This could be due to a mental disorder or disease as OP suggests.

I don't mean this too seriously so don't take it the wrong way, but I would think as a mod you in particular, should first look at posts and determine whether they merit a sincere response before jumping in and making fun of it. I can see this post as being sincere.

[Hopey]

This post would probably get some better responses in psychology, as it does not seem to fit in either S,M, or P.

[vhawk01]

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This post would probably get some better responses in psychology, as it does not seem to fit in either S,M, or P.

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I'd have recommended BBV.