Playing Too Tight??

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$4/$8 limit game.
I'm in MP with red 9s. I'm in seat 10. Seat 7 (very loose player) and seat 9 (very solid) both limp. I limp also (weak?). Seat 1 raises (he's a $10/$20 player waiting for a 10/20 seat). Seat 2 makes it 3 bets. She is the wife of seat 9 and she is just as solid as her husband. I put her on AA or KK. It folds around to the limpers (7&9) who fold, including her husband. I fold also.

Was this too weak? Should I have paid attention to the numbers of bets in the pot to help with my decision? [I believe it's 2 SB to call and there's 9.5 SB in pot so far]

I had seat 1 still to act behind me. He could very well cap it.

Now, does it make a difference what the flop was (I say it doesn't)? Because since I'm posting you can probably guess what hit.

I found out what hands seat 1 and 2 had and I was behind both.

Thanks

PS I did mention what I had to the table and got a mixture of "You play too tight" and "Correct read".

As I'm a newbie (still reading the posting requirements) does the forum in general like to know what the hands and flop were for these types of questions?