VERY serious friend related situation

unknown_one · #1 10-29-2007, 12:28 AM

Sorry about the gimmick accout OOT, but it's necessary.

Ok, I was dating this girl for about the last month. Three weeks ago, we decided to break it off and just become friends. Obviously, we are still extremely close. Last night she went out drinking with another one of my friends who is probably her closest guy friend. She ended up falling asleep on his futon (nothing out of the ordinary-- she did this when we were dating even) when they were both drunk. At around 3 in the morning last night, she wakes up and he is trying to rape her.

She has obviously been pretty shaken up today and is talking with me and her best girl friend (who also happens to be one of my best friends) and I'm not really sure what to do. Obviously, I need to help her out any way I can for now, and be someone to talk to. But outside of this, is there really anything I can do?

Please be serious here, I really don't know what to do.

tedfurlong · #2 10-29-2007, 12:30 AM

Call her a liar until she cries and then laugh at her.

XXXNoahXXX · #3 10-29-2007, 12:32 AM

did he stop when she told him to? if so, then no harm no foul. who hasn't tried to sip it in a sleeping female friend?

tedfurlong · #4 10-29-2007, 12:34 AM

She's just lucky she didn't get peed on.

GiantWalleye · #5 10-29-2007, 12:42 AM

good luck getting a serious response. I have no advice since ive never dealt with this situation.

miajag · #6 10-29-2007, 12:44 AM

I think this is a perfect spot to apply the time-honored legal doctrine of "eye for an eye."

esad · #7 10-29-2007, 12:49 AM

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I think this is a perfect spot to apply the time-honored legal doctrine of "eye for an eye."

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So are you saying that the OP now gets to rape his friend??

XXXNoahXXX · #8 10-29-2007, 12:49 AM

Serious response: What can you do? It's not like she is going to bring charges against him. How exactly did it go down? What do you mean "trying to rape her"? Did she sprint away, fight him off or did he stop? What happened the next day? Has anyone talked to him about it?

There's like a million more details you need to include before we can give good advice. (even then it will likely be "be there to support her and that's it) but still, details my man.

esad · #9 10-29-2007, 12:52 AM

My simple serious response.

It's not your problem. You are not the girl nor the guy.

They need to handle this in whatever manner works for them. If someone asks for advice then you can give them some but otherwise you should stay out of it.

imitation · #10 10-29-2007, 12:54 AM

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She's just lucky she didn't get peed in .

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