Ex Girlfriend Post...go ahead rip it apart.

[littleeddy]

Aight...I'm looking for advice in the ex girlfriend world.
I dated this girl on and off for 6 years! which is a long fking time. Was really close to getting married to her [img]/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img]
Anyways, we offically broke up about a year ago and were just friends...things were fine. We started talking more and became friends with special benefits...trouble! She then decided to tell me she loved me again and things got crazy. She recently started seeing someone else...but still tells me she loves me and even had me come over, hang out and sleep at her place before I moved out of the state all within the last couple weeks. Bad thing is she kinda got me reattached with all her antics and I'm a really big pushover and way to nice when it comes to her...she gets away with everything.
So, what do I do!

How about any honest advice?

[xxThe_Lebowskixx]

what do YOU think is the right move ?

[luckyjimm]

Pics?

[BestLuckEver]

Get away from this relationship. 6 years or not, it's only a small % of your life. This is pretty obviously a sexual relationship..if she was ugly (like a 5 or 6) I doubt you would even be considering her at this point. Right?

Poker Wake up call:

Let's say you live to be 80. (Pot = $80)
You've invested 6 years. ($6)
You break up, and are still having a side-relationship (Didn't make anything on the river, but still like your hand)
She leaves you temporarily for another guy who is interested in her a lot. (He pushes all-in)

Do you call or fold?

Take your emotions out of this and decide for yourself what really is the best LONG-TERM plan of action.

[ajml]

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Poker Wake up call:

Let's say you live to be 80. (Pot = $80)
You've invested 6 years. ($6)
You break up, and are still having a side-relationship (Didn't make anything on the river, but still like your hand)
She leaves you temporarily for another guy who is interested in her a lot. (He pushes all-in)

Do you call or fold?

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I have a feeling this isn't going to work out too well for you

[littleeddy]

Yeah...srry no pics.
And the poker analogy doenst really work either...because there are emotions involved...I wish I could take them out. And no its not just a sexual relationship...we dated for 6 years. I know what I should do...its just not as easy as it sounds when youre in my spot.

I could use some more advice...let me know what you think!

[MiloMinderbinder]

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Poker Wake up call:

Let's say you live to be 80. (Pot = $80)
You've invested 6 years. ($6)
You break up, and are still having a side-relationship (Didn't make anything on the river, but still like your hand)
She leaves you temporarily for another guy who is interested in her a lot. (He pushes all-in)

Do you call or fold?

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At times I don't mind a poker analogy if it's relevant.

This is definitely not one of those times.

(What I really wanted to say was: That's by far the most retarded poker analogy I have ever read.)

[sonneti]

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She then decided to tell me she loved me again and things got crazy. She recently started seeing someone else

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[tuq]

OP,

You left out a rather important detail: does she do anal?

[mak15]

OP,

your position sucks. try to move on.