Some Stuff About PUA (very long)

[El Diablo]

KKF,

Forget all the PUA/Cardo crap. This thread was great because it set the stage for your return to top form.

[DerrtySlime]

who wants to start a "newbie sargers club" with me. seriously.

[bkholdem]

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bkholdem,

Could you explain how "sex addiction" is distinguishable from "being a normal human being with impulse control problems?"

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I used the term as a matter of convenience. I was very obsessive and compulisive about having ZNS's and ONS's, as well as going to sex clubs, swing clubs, etc. I would even plan vacations around swing clubs and things like that. My entire weekends were spent hunting and sexing. It was compulsive and I was kind of on the edge to some degree (although I didn't do escorts unless someone else paid). On certain nights in a swing club I would have sex with 3-4 different women before leaving the place for the night. I also liked an audience quite a bit so had exhibitionistic tendencies for sure as well (not flashing or anything like that but doing it in front of crouds at swing parties and things like that). I really don't want to go into it much more than this. Suffice it to say that eventually I came to recongize it as a problem.

[traz]

"Ask me about being a mutha f'ing freak!"

[guids]

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bkholdem,

Could you explain how "sex addiction" is distinguishable from "being a normal human being with impulse control problems?"

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I used the term as a matter of convenience. I was very obsessive and compulisive about having ZNS's and ONS's, as well as going to sex clubs, swing clubs, etc. I would even plan vacations around swing clubs and things like that. My entire weekends were spent hunting and sexing. It was compulsive and I was kind of on the edge to some degree (although I didn't do escorts unless someone else paid). On certain nights in a swing club I would have sex with 3-4 different women before leaving the place for the night. I also liked an audience quite a bit so had exhibitionistic tendencies for sure as well (not flashing or anything like that but doing it in front of crouds at swing parties and things like that). I really don't want to go into it much more than this. Suffice it to say that eventually I came to recongize it as a problem.

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Im a normal human being with really bad impulse control problems. Ive had a few real nymphos before, the difference is akin to not being able to have only one drink when you go out, and liver cirrhosis by the age of 25.

[iggymcfly]

Wow, I spent way, way, way too much of my life reading this thread. I actually thought I might make it to the end but after a couple hours, I'm giving up.

[xxThe_Lebowskixx]

Mystery actually has his own book which is #20 on Amazon's best seller list. Surprisingly, I haven't seen it mentioned in any of these threads.

[The Yugoslavian]

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Mystery actually has his own book which is #20 on Amazon's best seller list. Surprisingly, I haven't seen it mentioned in any of these threads.

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It has been. Although the iteration most of the knowledgeable people have read is the Venusian Arts Handbook and it was an ebook. So we've all been referring to whatever his new book is as "whatever that new real book is he put out" [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img].

Yugoslav

[imthaifool]

Get a PUA mentor. Better yet, spend time with a natural and let him be your mentor.