I Got 99 Problems & A Bitch is One....

[absoludicrous]

3 different scenarios for you guys...you can choose one.

Foreground: Tomorrow night you're going to hang out with a girl, you barely know one another.

Background: Preceding tomorrow's events, you met this girl (19 yrs old, hot, vibrant personality) at a bar, hit it off, went back to her place for an after-bar. You made out with her, but never got past 1st base.

You set something up for the following weekend, here are your 3 choices.

1. You, her, and drinks and dinner at Applebee's, followed by a party at her house RIGHT after dinner. You're skipping out on your softball games at 9 & 10 PM in favor of this option. (You won't know anyone at the party besides her.) Time with date: 7pm - ?

2. You invite her over to your buddies house for some beers, and a BBQ. Your buddies are all totally cool, chill, and non-threatening. Dinner will last about an hour. You still opt out of the softball games.

3. You invite her, and a couple of her friends over to your buddies BBQ. They have the option of either,

A)watching you play softball for a few hours, then go party
B)heading back to her place to start the party

You can either play the two softball games, or just head right to the party with them after dinner.


Remember, this is essentially your first date. Which option do you choose and why?

[Alobar]

if shes having a party at here house, is she even up for option 2 or 3?

[sonneti]

4. Buy lots of drugs and go to a hotel.

[BillNye]

screw the softball, no chick is gonna wanna wait for 2 games to get done when you could be partying, any of the options are good that dont include u playing softball pre-date imo. Afterall this chick seems to be really good from your description. Have her come to ur softball when ur a little more down the line.

[pokulator]

where do you live?

can she get into other bars?

like alobar said, is she even open to doing something other than her party?

do you like this girl, and if so, why do you care about the softball games?

[UMTerp]

Play your softball games and tell her you'll meet her at her party afterwards. For one, it'll be pretty easy to tell if she's into you by her reaction when you show up. And you don't want to make it look like you're going way out of your way for her - get the upper hand here.

[Hawklet]

Options 2 and 3 are terrible.

Given the choices option 1 wins. UMTerps idea is best: show up to party and gauge reaction.

[Alobar]

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Options 2 and 3 are terrible.

Given the choices option 1 wins. UMTerps idea is best: show up to party and gauge reaction.

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you dont need to gauge her reaction, you already know she wants your [censored], you just have to not screw up the delivery.

Option 1 is lame because its dinner at applebees and you wont know anyone at her party, which is bad because its her party so shell feel the need to make sure everyone has a good time, and with you not knowing anyone shes gunna feel like she has to babysit you which isnt a good situation to be in to get sparks going.

Tho if you show up late from softball it wont matter prolly cuz by then shell be really drunk and all that BS wont matter. So I agree its a better plan than 1,2, or 3. but not for reactions sake.

edit to add: She doesnt want your [censored] because you pulled tongue for a bit when she was drunk, but simply because thats the attitude you should have at all times

[Austiger]

If she's not ready to blow you after dinner at Appleby's, it's just not going to happen.

[slickpoppa]

Go out with her some other night. It seems like either way you are gonna end up at a place where one of you may feel awkward.