bachelor party required?

[oddjob]

i'm not in the wedding party, since he got enganged, we never hang out anymore, and barely talk.

it will be very lame.

if it is required, can i just do a pop in to the strip club, buy him a lap dance, then break out?

[Scorpion]

Is it this Saturday in CT?

[btmagnetw]

wait why are you going then

[kyleb]

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[MrTrik]

If you guys were good friends once or long time friends and because of that you feel obligated to go, then yes, drop in buy him a dance or drinks and take off.

Or just don't go.

[oddjob]

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to the bachelor party? i might not be. depends if it's a "required" thing, if you're invited. do the grooms usually expect everyone invited to come?

[kyleb]

uh no. just the people in the party, usually. i am the best man in a wedding in 3 weeks and i sure as [censored] am not planning on more than 4-5 guys to show up/

[J_T_P]

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nothing is required. go for a night of [censored] and ass, or just stay home

[TheDudeAbides]

I think you're probably better off not going - say you have other commitments. It looks worse just showing up for 10 minutes and then taking off.

[Atlanta Andrew]

I just had my bachelor party in Vegas last weekend. Ten guys were invited, but only six attended. One even cancelled last minute.

I have no hard feelings at all towards any of the guys that did not show. They did each have legitimate reasons for bailing, though.

-Andrew