Guys, never let your girl win at cards

[Jiggymike]

First off your title is misleading. Second, this incident may have revealed what a bitch this girl really is. You probably shouldn't have said anything becauase people don't like being known that you let them win. However, it really isn't a big deal and you should tell her straight up that it's not a challenge for you to beat her so you were trying to make her feel better (ummm, word it better than that if you don't want to get dumped fo sho). all in all, this is pretty retarded of her.

[Bodhisattva]

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What's wrong w/ playing cards?

Bodhisattva, we've been together since September.

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If this is how she reacts to this nonsense think of whats to come when a real issue pops up.

[MikeyPatriot]

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Stacking the deck in her favor and then telling her that you let her win is really condescending.

That being said, she is overreacting.

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Even if you don't agree with how she is (over)reacting to this, you should at least understand WHY she is upset.

[sightless]

why did you have to rig the deck in order to let her win?

[pergesu]

She's banging another guy. What kind of chick freaks out about trust issues because you stacked the deck? The cheating ho-bag kind.

[Farfenugen]

She is a little nuts but you made a HUGE mistake in telling her that you let her win. I can't see any girl I know not getting a little pissed at this.

[bear]

It sounds like there was more to this scenario (maybe after she won or later) than is in your post. You said you maybe you just need to confess like you felt bad about it a little bit. She was probably initially pissed for the same reason you felt you needed to confess. Now I think she just wants you to understand. Still, thats a little bit of an over reaction. Be willing to give a little and be honest with her and this can probably end pretty soon.

[The X-Factor]

Just call her and tell her you are sorry and it wont happen again. You thought she wasnt having any fun so you were trying to be sweet and make her feel apart of the game. That being said if she still blows up then tell her to grow up and then find you a new girlfriend. Also, if you have pics of said gf then this will also help us with the advice we give you.

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[Case Closed]

Maybe she does not like and is currently looking for any reason to get you far away from her.

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the question I have it why are you so insecure that you felt the need to tell her the only reason you lost was because you rigged it?