Dating/relationship general advice thread - volume 2

[El Diablo]

Apparently people have some questions!

Volume 1

[kafkaFan1]

should i tell girls that i am a kafka scholar?

[Dale Dough]

D, would it be possible to separate the girls/dating from the personal/whatever life situation stuff?

It's not that long discussions about the merits of various babe-hunting policies aren't interesting, it's just that I felt that some of the other stuff kind of got lost in there.

[DerrtySlime]

i like this girl from school. shes a year younger, no big deal. She's russian. Blonde and sexy. we walk home together with her friend for about a week now. usually about a 2 minute walk til i start a new path to home. when i see her with her friends i open the whole group and it's usually play ful /fun conversatiuon. i think she likes me too. how do i escalate?

[DerrtySlime]

oh and her friends are all hot including the one that walks home with us. She is very sexual. Always brings up fun sex topics /escapades shes had anyways im pretty sure shes bi. should i try for a 3 some? also, the russina hjottie is kind of quiet, not so open and eccentric as her friend.

[El Diablo]

All,

Moved this post from cowpig over here:

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What's a good way to meet girls?

I live alone in a nice apartment in a great location in Montreal, consider myself pretty good-looking, and am generally pretty charming/socially capable. So I feel like I should have no problem with women, but the first part really gets me.

I have some friends who are in college here (I moved here recently), but the only attractive girls they ever hang out with are ones they are interested in themselves.

I have no idea how to "pick up" girls at bars, and that stuff usually just makes me feel sleazy anyway. Plus, any conversation I have with girls I don't know leads them to asking me questions like "are you in school?" and "why not?" and eventually my caving and telling them I play poker which is always pretty annoying...

And other than at bars and through friends, I don't really see places to meet people.
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Help the kid out!

[xxThe_Lebowskixx]

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i like this girl from school.

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i think she likes me too. how do i escalate?

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should i try for a 3 some?

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Dude, she probably knows how to squeeze her pussy muscles just right.

[M2d]

from volume one (regarding getting shot down repeatedly and then hitting on more girls):
"As for the flips, I think we're trapped in a level situation so I'll try to clear it up. Next flip is 50/50 no matter how many flips you have lost before."

when do you start to think that the coin is rigged and it's not just fluctuation? IIRC, the thread mentioned getting shot down 100 times in a row, but doing it again because the 101st time is 50/50. I may need to host a 21 game and invite you all.

reply without the gambling analogies:
if you get shot down repeatedly, take a look in the mirror and see if it's something about your approach/appearance/reputation/whatever that's turning off the girls. eventually, you have to figure that it's you ad not them.