Girlfriends going to parties without you - advice?

[thedustbustr]

i think her behavior is perfectly acceptable. you should learn to trust her.

[Paul B.]

Maybe you suck at parties? All of my male friends who have this problem don't know how to party aka are really boring.

[Tron]

Tell her to have fun.

[absoludicrous]

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[absoludicrous]

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Yeah, some guy's probably balls deep in her right now. If you don't live together this is totally normal IMHO. Seperation is OK you know. Next time you go to a "not cool crowd" party, don't even mention it to her. Play right back at her.

[SuitedSixes]

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Scotty doesn't know,
That Fionna and me,
Do it in my van every Sunday.

She tells him shes in church,
But she doesn't go,
Still shes on her knees, and...

Scotty doens't know, oh.
Scotty doesn't know-oh.
So don't tell Scotty!
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know.
SO DON'T TELL SCOTTY!

Fionna says shes out shopping,
But shes under me and I'm not stopping.

Cuz Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know.
So don't tell Scotty.
Scotty doesn't knoooooow....
DON'T TELL SCOTTY!

I can't believe he's so trusting,
While I'm right behind you thrusting.

Fionna's got him on the phone,
and she's trying not to moan.
It's a three way call,
and he knows nothing.
NOTHING!!!

Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Don't tell Scotty.
Cuz Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't knoooooow....
SO DON'T TELL SCOTTY!

We'll put on a show, everyone will go.
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't knoooooow....

The, parking lot, why not?
It's so cool when you're on top.
His front lawn, in the snow.
Laughing so hard, cuz...

Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know.

I did her on his birthday.

Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Scotty doesn't know,
Don't tell Scotty.
Scotty doesn't knoooooow....

Scotty will know,
Scotty has to know,
Scotty's gotta know,
Gonna tell Scotty,
Gonna tell him myself.

Scotty has to know,
Scotty has to know,
Scotty has to,
Scotty has to,
Scotty has to go!

Scotty doesn't know,
(Don't tell Scotty)
Scotty doesn't know,
(Don't tell Scotty)
Scotty doesn't know...
Scotty's gotta go!

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[jaxUp]

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advice?

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wear a rubber.

[Dave G.]

If it's a girls night out I couldn't care less about it.

If it's a general party, you have to know the guys there are going to try and score with her. She knows this too - it's probably part of the fun for her. She'll like the attention whether or not she actually does it, and it's not really a huge leap from A to B. It really comes down to how much you trust her, or more accurately, how much you trust her + alcohol + horny guys.

If it really bothers you so much, just talk with her about it. That should be easy if you're 'close and committed'.

You're also free to go to your own parties without inviting her. Be your own man, do what you want, and don't take this so seriously. If you don't feel she's being totally honest about what happens at these parties, give her a four letter word: next.

[Alobar]

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you bvetter start making lots of withdrwals from the pussy bank, cuz ure days are numbered!!!

The simple fact she didn't want you there and didn't talk to you about it is dysfunctional. Good couples talk and think of their actions on one another. Maybe she's just not ready for a serious relationship. Or if she is, maybe she isn't ready for a committed relationship, in which case you still need to talk and figure out what boundaries you are both comfortable with.