Now that I've been stripped of my manhood....

[Iplayragstoo]

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Thanks for the reminder on what it's like to be 19. I'd forgotten.

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[One Outer]

Do people really still look at relationships this way? You sound codependent. Who gives a crap? It's all her problem. Go live your life.

[Elevens]

Give her a Dirty Sanchez.

[Slow Play Ray]

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Thanks for the reminder on what it's like to be 19. I'd forgotten.

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Move on.

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[Hopey]

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She had a really hard childhood and is really close with her family as a result-- college (we are both freshman) is the first time she has ever been away from them and it has been really hard on her. Furthermore, since she always took care of her younger brother and sister, she is not used to people caring about her and it's hard for her. Emotionally, she has a lot of guy-like qualities like she tries to take care of things on her own, she does not trust people easily, etc.


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Stop psycho-analyzing the women you date. She didn't break up with you because of the above reasons, she broke up with you because she thinks she can do better.

[scott1]

This is her way of letting you down easy. She's away at college for the first time and wants to bang other guys. You could learn something from her.

Congratulations on your new friend.

[Los Feliz Slim]

OP,

She wants to bang other dudes. Sorry. You can either be like I was when I was in your position and obsess over it or you can realize that you're both kids and none of this matters in the least in the long run. Go have fun. I would pay 25% of my net worth to have realized this earlier, if you can take anything from it my pain will be partially redeemed.

Good luck.

[niss]

She sounds fat.

[daryn]

how old are you?

[David H]

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how old are you?

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He said freshman in college...probably 18 or 19.