A 'let's be friends' girl msgs me back... what's the play?

[DeMaci]

Move on, if youre on a dating website I'm sure you'll run into plenty of other girls.

[Vehn]

I dont get these responses. Why burn bridges? What do you get out of that? Be polite and respond back on your own time. Throw some sexual reference in there and see what happens. At worst you never hear from her again. At best she wants to get laid. In between at least you'll have a new "friend" and expand your social network.

[garcia1000]

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Why burn bridges? What do you get out of that?

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The expectation from continuing to interact with this girl is negative. Sorry, I didn't mean to use a dumb poker analogy, but this is the most concise way I can think of wording it.

[marchron]

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Ok, so seriously, why the hell would she send a message like this?

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Maybe because:
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Right now I'm under a semi-quarantine. Bacterial infection. But the sexy kind, of course.

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She's BORED. Your odds of getting anything out of this are slim to none, but at the same time you have nothing to lose. Work some seductive text-fu and see what happens.



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never really had to. In my single days, I had a playbook that got me in the sack at date 2, everytime. Maybe true playas will hate on this and say one date is all you need, but I was 100 % in the sack at date 2 with EVERY girl I dated in the 1994-1999 years. Not trying to brag, but I had an epiphany after my first wife and I got divorced, and decided no woman was too good, or hot, or whatever for me. That confidence, and my "playbook" worked wonders. I nailed 3 local beauty queens in the span of 6 months, dated one for a month, one for about three, and then hooked up with the third. (And yes, they were all boned on date 2.)

Maybe when I have the time I will post this fool proof strategy.... no PUA stuff (at least not that I know of) Maybe it just worked for me. who knows?

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I, for one, am intrigued. And since you're evidently not single anymore, I think you owe it to mankind at large.

[siccjay]

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girls are hardwired to mindfuck. She doesn't want you. She just wants you to want her.

gl hf

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Really? Come on now....you of all people should know that if a chick sends a message first there is at least a bit of interest. She may "want him to want her" but OP can parlay that into banging her if he played it right.

[The Yugoslavian]

Only read the title of your post. If your post *actually* reflects your title, then obv your play should be to cut this chick out of your life completely. Not in any malicious way, just, done.

Yugoslav

[traz]

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girls are hardwired to mindfuck. She doesn't want you. She just wants you to want her.

gl hf

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Really? Come on now....you of all people should know that if a chick sends a message first there is at least a bit of interest. She may "want him to want her" but OP can parlay that into banging her if he played it right.

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She has interest in the attention, not in him

[siccjay]

Yes, but he totally shut her out and she came back. It's not like they are friends since Kindergarten. I think he could at least get his fingers wet here.

[Pyromaniac]

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Right now I'm under a semi-quarantine. Bacterial infection. But the sexy kind, of course.


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what does this mean [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] "sex" and "infection" go together, sometimes, but "sexy" and "infection"...i got nothing.

[Idiotex]

I would take the dodgy line here. In sending a dodgy text message maybe your chances of success are low. But I figure, what have you got to lose. I would make a not so subtle suggestion as to what you'd like to do with her. If she responds negatively or not at all, just leave it at that. She might just get drunk one night and give you a booty call.