Ask me about : coming out

[Passaman]

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I was pretty much a single parent child.

RAF, I would probably do both each time

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There you go....I was 100% certain the answer would be something like that (i.e. father not around, father abusive, father withholding love). It is almost certainly the case in virtually every circumstance.

[Jay Riall]

Are you now going to invest in better cushions for your chairs? Any plans to go cottaging?

[kolotoure]

yes and no

[Jay Riall]

Does cottaging disgust you as much as it does me?

Edit: also other forms of extremely promiscuous homosexualism.

[kolotoure]

it does disgust me quite a bit tbh

[Lurker.]

do you watch football?
do you eat chicken wings?
do you play any sports?
do you dislike getting sweaty?
do you pop your collar?
do you wear tight pants?
do you wear makeup? if so, pic?

[kolotoure]

yes
no
yes
meh
yes
some of the time
yes

[Innocent Kitty]

wtf is cottaging?

[LionelHutz00]

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I was pretty much a single parent child.

RAF, I would probably do both each time

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There you go....I was 100% certain the answer would be something like that (i.e. father not around, father abusive, father withholding love). It is almost certainly the case in virtually every circumstance.

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for what it's worth, i know several gay people who have good relationships with their fathers.

My best-friend-growing-up's younger brother, I've known that this kid is gay since he was 3 years old. I used to hang out at their house all the time when I was a kid and I've probably spent a cumulative year in that house so I feel like I know their family pretty well. The dad is very nice, smart, attentive, doesn't get mad very easily, not abusive or absent at all. My friend is a very well-adjusted normal straight guy. And his brother is gayer than Little Richard's underpants. It's been patently obvious to any observer, even when he was a small child, that he's gay. He came out to his parents about a year ago (I think he's around 16 now) and they were basically like "ldo."

It's not like this disproves your theory or anything, Passaman. Just offering a counterexample.




Also, if your theory is that people are gay because they were abused/ not loved enough as a child, how does this justify hating on gay people/ saying that homosexuality is a sin. Whether it's something that's genetically predetermined or something that's developed as a result of childhood abuse, it's still something that's not the person's fault and not the person's choice.

[Lurker.]

wow, one popping their collar is the gheyest (dont mean it in a sexual sense, more in a stupid sense) thing that someone can do by way of fashion. Can i see what a gay dude looks like with makeup on?