post your favorite sex mix

[Dominic]

a good sex mix must be more than a bunch of vaguely sexy songs strung together haphazardly. They can be all of a genre or be surprisingly different - yet still mix and match as if originally made to play together.

They must not all be songs you just "happen to love." They should be songs chosen for her. Ones you feel will surprise her, excite her and make her feel sexy.

Like the act itself, a good sex mix must first set the mood and tease a little bit before getting into the heavy petting and foreplay. It must steadily rise towards a peak with sudden, delirious falls that take your breath away, leaving you begging for more. Finally, it must build to an inevitable and perfect climax that leaves the listener both satisfied, exhausted, and yet, willing to listen to the whole thing all over again.

rules:

no more than 15 songs - if you can last longer than 15 songs go give Sting lessons.

no "side one of Led Zep IV" - nothing wrong with this but be original.

most of the sex you are having is no longer in a dorm room.

you can name at least one Barry White song (it doesn't have to be in your mix, just name one!)

oh, and including "I Wanna Sex U Up" by Color Me Badd immediately disqualifies you to discuss anything sex related on these forums for the next two months.

*****************

There are all kinds of sex mixes...this is my "seduction" mix. Soft and sexy, with a side of aggression just underneath. Perfect for that first time together.

1. La Femme d'Argent.....................Air
2. My Torture...................................Esthero
3. Sugar Water...............................Cibo Matto
4. In the Waiting Line.....................Zero 7
5. To Be Free..................................Emiliana Torrini
6. Give it Up....................................8MM
7. Heaven........................................The Golden Palominios
8. Passing By..................................Zero 7
9. Dissolved Girl.............................Massive Attack
10. Glory Box.................................Portishead
11. Hell is Around the Corner........Tricky
12. 2Wicky.....................................Hooverp honic
13. Angel........................................Massi ve Attack

give it some thought and post some of yours!

edited to add that if mods feel this is not an El D thread, please move it to OOT.

[7ontheline]

This is really an EDF thread? Well anyway, I don't have any songs in particular to suggest because I'm married and we generally don't have music playing. I understand the need to set a mood for those who are still single, but I'd be interested in hearing how many posters here who are married or in long-term stable relationships have music playing during. As you said, people in college/dorms need not respond to my question.

[Reef]

don't have a mix so to speak but Marvin Gaye, Shai, some Boyz II Men, and a little Usher are good

[keikiwai]

[ QUOTE ]
I understand the need to set a mood for those who are still single,

[/ QUOTE ]

i'd suggest setting the mood is even more important for those of us who are married / in long term relationships

try playing some moood music and starting with a massage
with scented oils or something hoaky like that

i think you'll be pleasantly surprised

when you first bang someone, the novelty of the encounter heat thinggs up... but if you're in a relationship, sometimes it helps to go out of your way and do something like play mood music or whatever.. imo

[Dominic]

[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ]
I understand the need to set a mood for those who are still single,

[/ QUOTE ]

i'd suggest setting the mood is even more important for those of us who are married / in long term relationships

try playing some moood music and starting with a message
with scented oils or something hoaky like that

i think you'll be pleasantly surprised

when you first bang someone, the novelty of the encounter heat thinggs up... but if you're in a relationship, sometimes it helps to go out of your way and do something like play mood music or whatever.. imo

[/ QUOTE ]

what kind of message???








[img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

all kidding aside, I would certainly think setting the mood would be more important to long-time couples.

[Evenkeal]

[ QUOTE ]
most of the sex you are having is no longer in a dorm room.

[/ QUOTE ]
dammit

ps. i will use that mix, thanks dom

[adsman]

These are on my current ipod bonk list.


Summer Love (Beach house dub) - Factor 15.

Nights Interlude - Nightmare on Wax

Protection - Massive Attack

Walking Wounded - Everything but the Girl

Street Spirit - Radiohead.

Chill Out - John Lee Hooker

Problems - Salmonella Dub

Tsunami (Inside my Soul) - Sven Van Hees

The Great Gig in the Sky - Pink Floyd.

[suzzer99]

Nice to see some Massive Attack in there Dom. I don't really have a mix, since 3rd world bar girls usually aren't that particular. But scanning through my MP3s, if I did it would probably also have:

This Mortal Coil - Kangaroo (their second album - It'll End in Tears - is awesome in it's entirety the bedroom)
Orbital - Blue Illusion
Exile - I Want to Kiss You All Over
Mazzy Star - Fade Into You
Commodores - Easy
Britney Spears - Toxic (Armand Van Helden remix)
Postal Service - DC Sleeps Tonight
Daft Punk - Da Funk
Curtis Mayfield - Superfly
Smiths - How Soon is Now
My Bloody Valentine - When you sleep
Beth Orton - Chinese Whisper
Death in Vegas - Dirt
Iio - Rapture
Flaming Lips - Fight Test
Berlin - The Metro
Maria Muldar - Midnight at the Oasis
Sugababies - Hole in the Head
Darude - Sandstorm

[incognito]

There was an old playlist I had when I was at university that wasn't designed as a sex mix, but it ended up that way a couple of times. In a sort of Pavlovian way, it turned into one. I just went looking for it and can't find it anymore, but I remember the key points:

Elsewhere (Freedom Sessions version) -- Sarah McLachlan
A Case of You -- Joni Mitchell
Romeo and Juliet -- Dire Straits
Soul to Squeeze -- Red Hot Chili Peppers
Lead Me Upstairs -- David Gray
.
.
.
(bunch of stuff in here, more Massive Attack but don't remember what, and definitely Glory Box... seeing that in Dom's list is what reminded me)
.
.
.
Jesus Coming in For the Kill -- Life's Addiction
Teardrop -- Massive Attack
Roads -- Portishead

Note to aspiring mix-makers: I don't think I've met a female of any age who didn't like "A Case of You". It's a great song for setting the mood.

[suzzer99]

Romeo and Juliet, nice.