My x-gf sends me on tilt

[spanked]

I consider it pretty pathetic to post about ladyfriend problems on an internet forum, but here I go.

I've known this girl for a year know. We met at a party back then. She wanted my number, so I gave it to her, and we started talking via MSN and SMS like everyday. 4-5 months or so later, we were more than friends.
A month later she suddenly dumped me without warning. I think I screwed up somehow, but cant figure out how exactly.

The problem with this girl is that it seems like a can't get over her. She dumped me like 6 months ago. Even though she dumped me we still talk togeghter every other day. She considers me a good friend as I do her. Yesterday she told me she had gotten together with some boy, and I realized that I was far from over her.

I really hate the way she handled the break up. And she has said lots of hurtfull things to me in the past as well.

I don't wanna confront her about it, thats out of the Q. I would feel like a morron. I plan on shutting totally down on her. Not returning messages or anything, but thats kind of mean.

Going from being friends to being my girlfriend and then back to just being friends is pretty impossible right?

I guees writing all this stuff down helped me, but I would very much appreciate if you would tell me how to get over this girl once and for all [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

Help me [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[firstyearclay]

Take everything you have of her and burn it or throw it away.

Take here number out of your phone.

Let her go. Move if you have to.

[censored] everything in site.

FYC

[By-Tor]

rape her pets and/or farm animals

[lippy]

FYC is right. You can't have correspondence with her, as its function is, in your mind, to keep her close to you. But this won't work.

[Five-Star]

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morron.

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kinda sums up the whole post doesnt it?

two troll posts in one day, we must be blessed.

[spanked]

Thats some solid advice.
I have allready taken her number out of my phone like 5 times prior to this time, but then she send me a message and i end up adding her again, because Im so weak [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
You dont think this is kind of mean? Remember we talk together almost on a daily basis

[BEP]

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I really hate the way she handled the break up. And she has said lots of hurtfull things to me in the past as well.

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She ran you over man. Whether you keep talking to her or not isn't that big of a deal. The point is that this girl deserves no more of your emotion, sympathy, or support.

You MUST get over the fact that she is going to sleep with other guys. Starting tomorrow you're going to be looking for the next girl you will sleep with. It's ridiculous to let her actions control your feelings when she hasn't even treated you well in the first place.

You sound like a good guy. Get out there and find a girl that won't string you along.

[NT!]

i recommend high velocity transcortical lead therapy. next time make this post on your regular account.

[Poofler]

Just suck it up and stop messaging her. If you aren't willing to do it, we can't help you. If you think it's, just tell her you can't talk to her anymore. Tell the truth or say you have a gf now that gets jealous or something.