Girlfriends going to parties without you - advice?

marsvolta619 · #1 05-20-2006, 04:12 AM

So, I'm in the "not cool with it" crowd. My girlfriend is currently at a party, to which she made no gesture of invitation towards me, and she didn't ask if it was ok or not for her to go to it. She just gave me the old "i think i'm going to a party tonight" line. I asked her how much she's drank when she called me and she said only one drink, which girl math = about 3 drinks.

Anyways, my question is, what's your play in situations like these, and is anyone really ok with this phenomena? We're in a close and committed relationship btw

traz · #2 05-20-2006, 04:13 AM

no, if my gf goes to parties without me, and without inviting me, then we have issues. That is NOT alright with me

shag · #3 05-20-2006, 04:13 AM

um... talk to her about it. or dump her asss

wpr101 · #4 05-20-2006, 04:38 AM

That sounds pretty shady she wouldn't invite you. You may want to nicely ask about it. It is obviously bothering you and it should.

PokerBob · #5 05-20-2006, 04:40 AM

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then start acting like it and let her go.

goofball · #6 05-20-2006, 04:44 AM

she should take you into consideration. She should either invite you or explainwhy you aren't invited and if that's ok.

ColdCaller · #7 05-20-2006, 04:45 AM

You are an insecure [censored].

diebitter · #8 05-20-2006, 04:45 AM

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she should take you into consideration. She should either invite you or explainwhy you aren't invited and if that's ok.

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The right answer.

dustybottoms · #9 05-20-2006, 04:45 AM

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then she should start acting like it and invite him to go.

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illeagle · #10 05-20-2006, 04:47 AM

How long have you two been close and committed Marsvolta619?