Helping girlfriend make friends. HELP! - Page 2

NT! · #11 09-25-2007, 01:13 AM

lollllll [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] alobar

Dan Cole · #12 09-25-2007, 01:17 AM

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She wasn't really bummed out that men want to f her and not be her friend was she?

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I've got a lot of chick friends, and I can't even begin to count how many times after some guy they thought just wanted to be their friend tried to nail them, that I've had to explain to them that guys already have friends, they don't want to make new friends with some girl. If they are showing any interest in you its because they want to [censored] you.

Which every single time is always followed by

her: "that's not true, we are just friends and you are a guy"
me: "we've already [censored]"
her: frowning "oh yeah"

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Haha yeah. I think the biggest dissapointment for her has been that the people she works with at a department store haven't been very friendly to her. Like she's made some friends, but the people that she was actually into in terms of being friends have kind of blown her off, while the people that she didn't like at all have wanted to hang out with her.

Luckily I should be way less busy over the winter and will hopefully be able to go out more with her and help her try to meet people. Because she said that if she doesn't make friends within the next 10 or so months of our lease, she doesn't want to live in NYC anymore, and I really don't know if I can leave New York.

NT! · #13 09-25-2007, 01:23 AM

dan,

i live in NYC. PM me pics of your gf and i will let you know if she looks cool enough to hang out with my hip crowd.

pegusus · #14 09-25-2007, 01:48 AM

is your gf ugly, good looking people don't/shouldn't have trouble making friends

jzpiano · #15 09-25-2007, 01:59 AM

Shame you don't live in Chi town, cause my situation is the opposite yours. My fiance moved from NY to Chicago where we are living. She is also having trouble making friends, since all her coworkers are 20+ years older than her. Thought I'd let you know, not that it helps [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Dan Cole · #16 09-25-2007, 02:37 AM

Is that your fiance in your avatar? If so, we should all hang out [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img].

Steven_Q_Erkel · #17 09-25-2007, 02:39 AM

I will be her friend. Where does she live?

NozeCandy · #18 09-25-2007, 02:44 AM

Swinging ftw

MattSuspect · #19 09-25-2007, 03:23 AM

I know a girl who has a met few good friends on craigslist, theres like a friends section in the personals.

IggyWH · #20 09-25-2007, 03:36 AM

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I know a girl who has a met few good friends on craigslist, theres like a friends section in the personals.

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I've met a lot of cool people off of CL. There's definitely some weirdos out there and you can usually spot them after an email or two. I would think things would be less wierd for a chick looking for chick friends.