Girlfriend pregnant. Her Dad roughs me up.

[Terrible Push]

I've been seeing this girl for about three months. Two weeks ago she missed her period and took a pregnancy test. Yup, she's knocked up. I started off playing it cool, telling her that it's her decision to make (while secretly rooting for her to get an abortion). But when she started to talk like she was thinking of having the baby and getting married, I guess that I kinda freaked out and got mad at her. We had a big fight. The other day we talked and I apologized and we're getting back together. She says that she still hasn't decided whether she's having the baby or not.

Yesterday after work there was this guy waiting in a car, parked in the parking lot. When I left the lot, he followed me. I didn't think anything of it, but then he followed me to the parking structure in my dorm. When I got out, there was her father, accompanied by some other big guy. He grabbed me and pushed me up against the wall and was saying this stuff about how if I don't treat his daughter right, there's gonna be big trouble. He said that she's gonna have the baby no matter what I say. He punched me in the stomach, no too hard but hard enough to hurt.

I'm scared of her father, even before this whole thing happened. Once I was joking with my girlfriend and I said something about how her dad must be in the mafia. She got all serious and was like "no, no way." Kinda weird.

I'm pretty scared of her dad. I'm not sure what to do. I like this girl, but I'm definitely not ready to have a kid. I'm just a dumbass 20 year old college student. I'm not looking for any serious advice but I just want to say that this situation really sucks.

[KSOT]

You're not ready to have a kid, but you're ready to have unprotected premarital sex?

LOLZ j/k. Sux 2 b u duud.

[chadmack]

lol @ ksot, nh

and: op, that sucks bro that's a hard situation... witness protection ftw?

[Speel Posher]

damn...pretty sure when she says she doesnt know if she wants to have the kid that means that she just doesnt want to freak you out again. That sucks OP

[superadvisor]

Sorry, ready or not the kid is coming and only a coward would blame her for getting pregnant, you put your penis in her, you ejaculated in her, it's your responsibility. I'd say he is a good father for making sure you don't try to weasel your ass out of this situation.

[tiger_hall]

A BBV4L member had the sexy time?
all lies

[Hugh Chardon]

Man, do you realize how much your life is about to change? Picture yourself 1 year from now......a crying baby, a young mother with no options for the rest of her life, all your money tied up in stupid [censored] like pacifiers and diapers and baby food. Still, you gotta do the right thing here

[swingdoc]

Yeah, do the right thing and run the [censored] away. Change name if necessary. No way I would want to get permanently mixed up with a family like this. Alternatively, you could blow up the father's home and hope the gf is inside at the time.

[5thstreet]

That was a Terrible Push, huh?

[holland3r]

Run away, seriously. Marrying her is out of the question -- you'll ruin your life.

Worst case tell her you want nothing to do with her or the child and pay child support, better idea is to simply disappear. . .