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08-20-2007, 01:36 AM
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girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
my girlfriend's exboyfriend has apparently been attempting to drunk-dial here late at night a few times recently... then today while she and i were hanging out he sent her a very crude, sexual text message, and she became instantly upset. i grabbed her phone, texted him back, and then proceeded to call him. i left him a voicemail saying he is being extremely disrespectful, and if he wants, he and i can "meet up" to "discuss" this harassment problem.
he calls her # back soon thereafter, i speak to him, address the problem, and reiterate that if there is some misunderstanding, he and i can meet up to solve this problem. he says "ok", i hang up, and we leave it at that for now. my girlfriend wants to try to address the issue by herself soon, and is going to try to call him tomorrow to see if he will stop the phone calls. i'm a little skeptical that will deter this pathetic loser. i'm 100% sure i can whoop his ass one-on-one if necessary, but am a little scared that i might get jumped by a group of guys or maybe have my car vandalized randomly. it's really uncertain if this problem will escalate or will vanish quickly in my opinion. other than being prepared to fight if necessary, i'm wondering if i should start logging all contacts he makes with my girlfriend or myself, to possibly be prepared to discuss with local police and/or file harrasment or for a restraining order. any practical advice is appreciated, thanks. 
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#2
08-20-2007, 01:39 AM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
you shouldn't have got involved. tell your girlfriend to tell the ex that he needs to cease all contact with her, and she can tell him she is going to call the cops if he doesn't. regardless of whether she tells him about the cops or not, she can still call the cops the next time he makes contact.
now that you have got yourself involved and want to fight him over it (lol), i don't know
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08-20-2007, 01:41 AM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
yo dawg id meet him 1 on 1 and fight him but if he brings his homiez and they ride on u that would suck and i think u should get your homiez to ride on him after you are snitched up.
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08-20-2007, 01:43 AM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
You could probably hire Paul Magriel on the cheap, and his facial expression and extra nose cartilage would probably scare the dude out of whatever nefarious plans he had lined up.
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08-20-2007, 03:01 AM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
Call him, challange him to a fight, and then never show.
By the way, if the GF really wants to take care of this herself then she would. My guess this was one of those relationships were they tried to stay "friends" after the breakup. That [censored] never works.
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08-20-2007, 03:05 AM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
[x] she is cheating on you
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08-20-2007, 03:10 AM
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Re: girlfriend being harassed, what to do?
Dave,
Are you serious? You're going to fight some guy over a drunk dial? How long have you and GF been together and how long have they been broken up? How old are you three? Drunk dials - srs biz. Blow it off and laugh about how you're going to do those "crude, sexual" things to her. Way to flip out and text her and then call him. I hope you told him you'd beat the [censored] out of him if he did it again. Because, you know, then he will. If its drunk dialing and lame text messages, ignore it. Nobody's getting hurt. If he starts following her or threatening people, then do something. Wow.
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