GF invites me to wake, whats my line?

[JuntMonkey]

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go idiot. I can't even believe you have to

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also, I vote to ban anyone that uses "Whats my line" or "whats my play" instead of "what should i do?"

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"What's my line" is debatable, "what's my play" is right on the edge, but "what's my play, OOT?" should be dealt with instantly and mercilessly.

[kurosh]

Try talking to her and explaining how you feel???

[cpitt398]

when i get into situations like this with a girl where i know i should do one thing but don't feel like it, I usually just tell them I will call them back and never do, ever.

[zer0]

my gf's grandfather was just diagnosed with lung cancer and is in pretty bad shape in the hospital. i feel your pain, because even though i've met her family, i hate them all.

[The Man]

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Doesn't matter what the excuse is, men will always look like dogs here if they don't go. It appears selfish and unsympathetic. If you are always afraid of awkward, unexpected family situations when it comes to dating, then you are likely unexperienced. Suck it up if you care. Otherwise don't.

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I said we aren't that serious. But I didn't mention she likes me alot more than I like her. I am not inexperienced at dating. How many people go to a wake not knowing a single person? I've never met these people, and I have to get up early to drive two hours to see a wake (i've actually never been to a wake or a funeral before)

[The Man]

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Try talking to her and explaining how you feel???

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I've been very honest with her and she is horrible at bluffing me. I know she takes this very seriously, even though she says she doesn't. I think it is a test. I think that her testing me is unfair, and cruel.

I guess OOT votes that I don't go and dump her huh?

[Uglyowl]

No one likes wakes/funerals.. sack up and go

[wall_st]

If you like her and want to keep a good relationship you should go. If you don't care about her that much then you should break up with her and not go. Sounds like you are being tested but from your attitude she may have reason for doing so.

[tarheeljks]

only you know whether she is capable of testing you in this manner, but i'm skeptical. it is far more likely that she just wants you to be there for her b/c she's hurting. i really doubt she is going to dump you if you say no, but she may not let you forget about it. either way you should let her know your reservations and go from there.

[xxThe_Lebowskixx]

if you arent serious, just be honest and dont go. dont let these guys convince you otherwise.

edit: ,imo