In a HU match when is it acceptable to request a reload?

[PartyGirlUK]

It's pretty douchey to ask someone to reload imo, unless you specifically outline at the beginning of the match that they will have to reload once they hit a certain stack.

Certainly in limit, having someone but in for 11.3BBs when its obviously that's their entire roll, then forcing them to reload once they hit 9BB, as I've seen some people do, is real douchey.

Definitely not unethical, tho.