Woman Problems

[woman problems]

This is not my first post, although maybe my first one in OTT. I’m not sure. I’m a long time, and well-respected poster on the strategy boards. I haven’t ever posted many details about myself personally so don’t bother trying to figure out who I am.


Here’s my dilemma: I’m 34. My girlfriend of two years is 22. She’s a great girl in every way. She's beautiful. Big brown eyes, natural Ds and a nice round butt. She’s also very mature for her age. She knows herself very well and is well-adjusted. She loves kinky sex too. She loves it when I do her like a puppy, not to mention she absolutely loves me SingIIHP, and kinky roleplay (i.e. professor-student, boss-employee, etc.). Anyway, I recently asked her to marry me, and she said yes. Her family is great, and they all like me.


The problem is my wife of twelve years, with whom I have a 6 year-old son. Early in our marriage things were great. I pounded her like a hammer at least five days a week. However, after a couple of years, she just woke up one day and decided she was frigid. And I do mean frigid. I’m talking I’m lucky if I get it twice a year from her. And I can’t even remember what a blowjob from her is like. Other than that, our marriage is pretty good. We do love each other, and have a great kid. But after several years of taking care of myself, I guess I got tired of it and when I met my now-girlfriend we just clicked. It wasn’t planned, but I’ve been very happy. Yes, I know I should’ve broken up with my wife first, but I didn’t. I know it was wrong.


So where’s the dilemma? Well I’ve been planning to tell my wife I’m leaving, but last night out of the blue she starts talking about sex. She was being completely uninhibited for the first time in years. She starts telling me things she’d like to try. She wants to go to the store and buy porn. She wants to go to the strip club and “touch some boobies.”


So now I’m in a bind. I’ve made a commitment to my girlfriend, who I love and who is amazing. But she might also be willing to maintain status quo for awhile. But I also love my wife and the one thing that’s been wrong with my marriage for about 10 years seems to be suddenly completely fixed.


What do you think I should do?

And here's a pic for the help (no it isn't either the wife or girlfriend.)

[diebitter]

Hell, I got a wife that's not frigid, and I still want a gf like yours (if it's okay with my wife)!

[NLSoldier]

Wow.

[ThinMan]

Scumbag

[Jihad]

Dr. Phil says: Your wife is cheating on you, or seriously considering it. "And its not even close". Any sudden changes in sexual drive like this are generally considered clear and valid indicators of a wandering heart.

I clicked "marry the young broad" but I really don't think that's wise either. You shouldn't be jumping from one marriage to another. You are doomed 95% of the time. Spend some time with her exclusively and see if the novelty of banging somebody that's not your wife wears off. GL.

-JOTR

[Dave G.]

Good job, you're going to break a young girls heart and hurt your wife, probably ruining your sons life in the process when he realises his father is a dick.

Nice work, irresponsible [censored].

[NLSoldier]

First of all, where is the pic? 2nd of all, your kid should come before your sex life. I dont understand how you can have a great marriage but never have sex. If your marraige is great cant you just talk to your wife about it and be like hey we should do more pounding.

[jakethebake]

I voted YSSCKY...for being a troll and making this [censored] up, not for any of the actual content.

[PokerBob]

give your wife/marriage a chance to work itself out. IMO you'll deeply regret it if you don't. You can only bang so much, there has to be more there, which you seem to have with your wife.

[istewart]

ROFL. Great stuff man.

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She loves it when I do her like a puppy, not to mention she absolutely loves me SingIIHP, and kinky roleplay (i.e. professor-student, boss-employee, etc.).

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Amazing.