Dating/relationship general advice thread - volume 2

[JanelleBB7]

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and you have to call them 2-3 days after you give them your number. You haven't built up enough interest for them to be "waiting by the phone" so to speak, they will forget you,

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QFT - bad idea not to call within 2 - 3 days if you haven't established anything more than just a casual meeting. She will make other plans and quickly forget about you (unless there was some magical experience which it doesn't sound like it was to me).

[yea]

i didnt really see an oppurtunity for a kiss, i was drunker than she was and while i kept putting my hand on shoulder and getting closer to her that was pretty much the extent of the contact. we talked at the first bar with about 2 hours and she followed me and my friend to a second bar pretty late. i think im likely ok here.

well its a moot point now anyway but im going with the monday call and will post a TR if something interesting happens. i was away in atlantic city for the weekend, and i think calling with friends around and even calling on the weekend in general was weird. i figure if she likes me and i call on monday and am funny and do good on the call then it'll be fine and if not then whatever. open the call with how was your weekend, i was away for the weekend, and go from there.

is setting up a dinner at a casual place with live music/drinks on a weeknight a good call? if im going to be gone this weekend again is this pretty much the best option?

[gobbomom]

relax. Just do what works for you; if she likes you then she won't care about when you call or when you go out. GL.