Problem with husband of friend - need advice please

[Gugel]

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Then, it occurred to me that you guys give pretty good advice.

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And the first response:

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I would bake her a cake. On top of the cake I would write in frosting "btw ur husband tried to rape me lolz"


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I find that highly amusing. In all seriousness, digitally record the conversation and post it on 2+2.

[Alobar]

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also, stop being such a [censored]-tease, he obviously thought he had a green light [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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good point! It's also worth noting that this entire situation could have been completely avoided if you would have at least just blown the guy

[daryn]

record convo idea is awesome and the best

[Hugh Chardon]

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also, stop being such a [censored]-tease, he obviously thought he had a green light [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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good point! It's also worth noting that this entire situation could have been completely avoided if you would have at least just blown the guy

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lol

[scott1]

Wow. This guy isn't very smart. Has he seemed like a dirtbag in the past?

You have to tell your friend, IMO. Maybe she won't believe you but at least it will create a seed of doubt in her mind. When her husband pulls this again in a couple years (and he will) she'll have less reason to believe his side of the story. Eventually she'll figure him out.

[Georgia Avenue]

Definitely tell the wife, end the friendship if you have to, but do it right away. Also,

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I am a single middle aged divorced woman

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[Peter Harris]

I am pleased noone has said "do nothing". this proves we all mean well.

OP, tell her, she may not believe you. You should tell her, you should not see the guy again and make clear his balls are in jeopardy and, yes, your friendship is likely over. Sorry [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[bernie]

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OP, tell her, she may not believe you. You should tell her, you should not see the guy again and make clear his balls are in jeopardy and, yes, your friendship is likely over. Sorry [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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Yep, this one's gonna test your friendship.

I'd tell her. No problem. Spell out exactly what happened. Too many other people in this world to hang out with to put up with this crap.

I'd also tell her that's why I will refuse to be anywhere around this A-Hole in the future. Make clear how much he disgusts you, but that you'd still make time for her.

If you're going to file a police report, I'd tell her that the next time(hopefully the 1st time since she's back) that you talk to her. That's something she should probably hear from you before the officer is at their door.

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[cocked&locked]

He attempted to detain you against your will and then threatened you. It's not wise for you to try to interpret the meaning and seriousness of his threat, or the lengths he may go to fulfill it. I would file a police report regardless of how you otherwise decide to handle this with her. Even if nothing comes of it right now, it does no harm to file the report.

I would not speak to or otherwise engage him. If he ever somehow decides to cause you harm, the police will at least have knowledge of this incident.

[Frinkenstein]

you could talk to the wife and simply say something like:

"I can hang out with you, but only as long as husband is not around"

When she asks why, you can tell her to ask her husband.