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using the word \"gay\"
Before going to college, my friends and I would use the term "gay" fairly regularly to refer to any person/situation that we considered unfavorable, [censored], etc. But once I went to college (uber-liberal school on the east coast), I found that I had to make a conscious effort not to use the term since there was this overbearing culture of political correctness . It didn't really bother me that I had to stop using it, but now when I hear my friends use it in a context not referring to a homosexual, I always feel alarmed. Is this normal? How many OOTers use the word "gay" in everyday convo?
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
i used it religiously from the age of 10-17 and then just stopped, i guess because it sounds really stupid and doesnt make any sense.
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
Wesleyan?
If you're actually going to a school where some girl will call you out on that in a social setting, you need to escape quick. |
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
used gay for a while, slowly had to replace it with "lame"
...laaame |
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
I think the same question applies to use of the word 'retarded'. I use it, but I know I probably shouldn't.
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
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I think the same question applies to use of the word 'retarded'. I use it, but I know I probably shouldn't. [/ QUOTE ] This is even worse for me, as I have an aunt and an uncle who are both err....mentally challenged, and I *still* can't stop myself from saying it. |
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
I said "gay" a lot until I got to be really close friends with a gay guy I worked with at my last job. He moved into the same apartment building I live in and started hanging out with me and my straight, ex-frat friends a lot and on more than one occasion I saw his crestfallen expression after someone carelessly threw the word around. I'm very careful not to use "gay" anymore- but I would definitely never judge someone for using it.
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
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used gay for a while, slowly had to replace it with "lame" ...laaame [/ QUOTE ] This is exactly what I did. Weird. I think most people get to a certain age and realize how stupid they sound referring to everything as gay. |
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
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[ QUOTE ] I think the same question applies to use of the word 'retarded'. I use it, but I know I probably shouldn't. [/ QUOTE ] This is even worse for me, as I have an aunt and an uncle who are both err....mentally challenged, and I *still* can't stop myself from saying it. [/ QUOTE ] My fiancé's sister is severely autistic. When we started dating, I had to banish the word from my vocabulary. Now I very, very rarely think about using it. Her friends that she's been friends with since college will still say it in front of her, which is strange. |
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Re: using the word \"gay\"
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