The Answer - DN

[Tornado69]

DN is very religious. I'm wondering what his explantion will be to the invisible man ?

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[IvanXDurham]

One key piece of information that might also come into play is the fact that before they got married, Lori and Daniel had actually broken up (and at the time I believe they also had decided that they were better off as just friends). Some time passed and then BAM, marriage. My guess is that they probably had a gut feeling even back then that they might not be right for each other as far as the long haul is concerned, and that fine, y'know? It happens to all of us and it really does come off as if though they both knew that this was for the best. The question here would be what exactly happened between the first break up and the reconciliation/marriage that made them think they could somehow work past the fact that were'nt right for each other. I'm sure those close to him know way more than any of us ever will, but again deep down I think they both kinda knew a long time ago that it just wasn't meant to be. When it comes to matters of the heart, sometimes you "can't win c.ock, bro". Good luck to Daniel in the future and if you're reading this: bring back the Wolverine do' in time for the '08 WSOP, I gaurantee you will feel ilke a new man. [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

[sqwisssssss]

i dont know if daniel is gay but he did join the poker stars "team" did he not?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynAzBVsWXUI

its all about trust to join a team guys.

[Crazy Porto]

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Daniel N. is getting a divorce.

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Caught rogering his houseboy, obviously.

Seriously, aren't Christians supposed to have rules about this kind of thing? His post just seems to imply that they're just kind of fed up with each other, so it's time to move on.

I'm not in any way opposed to divorce, there's no kids that they should stay together for, and I'm an atheist myself so what do I know, but this really does seem typical of the modern North American approach to Christianity. Embrace the rules while they suit you, then drop them just as soon as they become inconvenient and start getting in the way of the things that you really want to do.

Reminds me of Newt Gingrich, who dumped his wife for a younger model while she was on her sickbed, dying of cancer. Not that Daniel is doing anything so cruel. Rather, that both of them have been espousing a set of values that they don't appear to genuinely embrace.

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The part I found interesting was that they both had agreed that they had tried their best.

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Dude, they've only been married for two years. I've had *arguments* with my wife that lasted longer than that.

While I don't believe that people should stay together and be miserable, if you're genuinely committed to a relationship, you stick in there and work at it even when things don't seem to be working. Because the relationship is more important than the other, trivial stuff that's getting in the way.

Daniel's blog is very nice and respectful, but I think it's also somewhat dishonest insofar as I don't believe it's telling us what the real reasons for his divorce are. Now, it's none of our business anyway, and he may not even know himself, but in my experience this 'we've grown apart' business tends to be a euphemism for one of two things:

a.) I want somebody else, or
b.) I hate your guts

Finally, I think it's a little weird discussing someone else's divorce in this way, but if he puts his private business out there for public discussion, it doesn't seem unreasonable to speculate and pontificate.

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do you often have the feeling people fall asleep when you start talking to them?

[illegit]

I know divorce in our society is considered no big deal, especially when no kids are involved. But in Christianity there's basically no acceptable reason to break a sacred vow you gave before God and your peers (and DN's a Christian). Especially if the break up was happy and amicable as he describes it. If it's serious enough to break that vow there should have been broken glass, someone should have cheated on someone, blood, screaming etc.

[Kinbor]

Once we finished talking we both felt sooo much better instantly! I liked her better already, lol!

this was priceless. it completely changed the flow of the article, at first being pretty serious than cracking up like that.

[Hotel Detect]

I pointed out that DN was probably getting divorced last week and got instaflamed simply cuz i said that meant there was a small chance he was coming out.

I personally think that DN is most likely heterosexual, but if he is homosexual I have no problem with it WHATSOEVER. I do not understand the people that get all bent out of shape for those suggesting the mere possibility that he may be gay.

What does it matter if he is? This is a gossip forum after all.

[SuperUberBob]

I like the phrase "we've grown apart". If he means that they were screaming at each other at the top of their lungs or something like that, then okay.

No divorce is clean cut and smooth. It may start out that way in rare cases, but people start claiming what theirs and what isn't, then it become a battle. It's doubly worse when there are kids involved in the equation. Even if it's clean right now, by the time they get their lawyers to sort out all of the legal matters and conditions, they'll be sworn enemies. I've seen the shouting matches, custody battles and death threats first hand.

I'm surprised that DN even mentioned anything about his divorce. I really don't think there's much to gain by airing personal grievances of this nature. It only leads to speculation and talk from people like us on stuff that we really don't have the right to know. I mean, now the "OMG DN IS GAY" group is bouncing as seen by some in this thread.

But best of luck to ya DN in the future.

[Hotel Detect]

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I know divorce in our society is considered no big deal, especially when no kids are involved. But in Christianity there's basically no acceptable reason to break a sacred vow you gave before God and your peers (and DN's a Christian). Especially if the break up was happy and amicable as he describes it. If it's serious enough to break that vow there should have been broken glass, someone should have cheated on someone, blood, screaming etc.

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Not everyone that considers themself Christian follows strict Catholic (or even Protestant) doctrine. Daniel strikes me as someone who tries to follow the general teachings of Jesus and handles the rest on his own.