New to OOT. Have custody of my nephews. LONG

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I dont understand the hate for OP's wife. OP's wife DID NOT sign up for having kids. If she was a "family person" then ok i might go along with some arguments. remember we are talking about a couple that doesnt want kids.

How is it fair to OP's wife. we are talking about troubled kids with a screwed up mother. OP's wife might be trembling at the thought of having to survive these brats for eternity.

I pity OP's situation. like i said before, its your responsiblity to make amends of every royal f****ups.

keep the wife, ditch the nephews. you dont even want kids of your own and you are going to provide shelter from 2 effed up kids.