BBV4L: Need girl advice ASAP (TIME SENSITIVE LDO)

[EvanJC]

Here's the situation. I play a lot at the lovely Hooter's Hotel and Casino here in LV. Like, a lot. So anyway, I'm friendly with a lot of the staff. There is this one coctail waitress in particular that I'm friendlier with than others. We always chat, etc, and we've run into each other a couple of times while out and seemed to have a rapport blah blah.

Recently, this girl has started telling me her plans for the evening, a couple of times implying that I should also do what she's doing (house of blues, or w/e), and a couple of times she's just kind of told me her business and left it at that.

So anyway, tonight as I'm playing and she's leaving she tells me "Stoney's tonight!" which is a country bar here that we both go to. I just smile and say have fun. 15 minutes or so later I'm finished playing cards and am having a beer in the video poker room and she walks by all dressed up to go out. I can't remember exactly how she said it, but but it basically amounted to "You should also come tonight." Being a douche, I made some comment about how none of my friends are going out, etc, and she actually got kind of offended, saying "I can't believe you wouldn't consider me a friend or w/e", I can't tell if she's joking so I mumble something about how I might stop by or whatever. She leaves.

Another 15 or so minutes later she walks back through, on the way out to her car (she had been plying BJ or something), and she says "Okay, I'm finally leaving, like you should be too!" At which point I saw something to the effect of "The only reason I wouldn't go is b/c you'd be the only person I'd know in the group, and it might be weird, etc etc. But eventually I say I might see her later for a little bit.

Wow, typing that out it seems like my play is so obvious and that I should just roll down there solo. But I typed all that [censored] out so I'm at least going to poll what I perceive to be my options...

Random extra info...she is a solid 7.5 and I'd be thrilled to sleep with her under any circumstances, but especially now as I have yet to be laid since moving to Vegas at the beginning of August, so I may have to force myself out of my comfort zone a bit. Fwiw, I feel like she is wayyyy out of my league socially, but I have the advantage in that she doesn't really know just how big of a loser I am. Not out of my league looks wise.

Also, if any vegas dudes want wingman duties tonight (one of the two girls she's going with is confirmed hot, other is unknown) pm me or post here.

TR to follow if I go

[EvanJC]

picture sums up my trepidations nicely

[BEP]

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Being a douche, I made some comment about how none of my friends are going out, etc

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"The only reason I wouldn't go is b/c you'd be the only person I'd know in the group, and it might be weird, etc etc

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This stuff makes you sound pretty lame. The very first time she asked you, you should have said "hey, give me your number and maybe I will see you out tonight." then you don't go out of course and she sees you in the poker room a week later... "Why didn't you come out blah blah blah?" ... you say "Oh, my bad... let me buy you a drink tonight." game over.

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EVAN

I WILL GO WITH YOU TONIGHt


LETS GO

[EvanJC]

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Being a douche, I made some comment about how none of my friends are going out, etc

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"The only reason I wouldn't go is b/c you'd be the only person I'd know in the group, and it might be weird, etc etc

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This stuff makes you sound pretty lame. The very first time she asked you, you should have said "hey, give me your number and maybe I will see you out tonight." then you don't go out of course and she sees you in the poker room a week later... "Why didn't you come out blah blah blah?" ... you say "Oh, my bad... let me buy you a drink tonight." game over.

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Totally agree by making those comments I am sort of qualifying myself to her or atleast admitting that I'm unfomfortable with new people in new situations, which is absolutely horrible. I'm a) not good at this [censored] to begin with and b) out of practice.

Best play going forward iyo to forget about tonight and hit her up at a later date?

I just remembered that the other day she made a comment to the effect of "if I had your phone number I would have called you for (bla bla fun activity)", and I didn't take that opportunity to exchange numbers. I'm so bad at this [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[EvanJC]

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EVAN

I WILL GO WITH YOU TONIGHt


LETS GO

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DON'T TEASE OMG

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[AHoboOnFire]

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EVAN

I WILL GO WITH YOU TONIGHt


LETS GO

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nation's drunk

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I"M GETTING DRESSED NOW I WILL NOT LET YOU MESS THIS UP

BBV DON"T SAY I"M NOT THERE FOR YOU GUYS WHEN YOU NEED ME

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i'm sober but i'll start drinking now this will be so much fun dude