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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
Try talking to her and explaining how you feel???
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
when i get into situations like this with a girl where i know i should do one thing but don't feel like it, I usually just tell them I will call them back and never do, ever.
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
my gf's grandfather was just diagnosed with lung cancer and is in pretty bad shape in the hospital. i feel your pain, because even though i've met her family, i hate them all.
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
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Try talking to her and explaining how you feel??? [/ QUOTE ] I've been very honest with her and she is horrible at bluffing me. I know she takes this very seriously, even though she says she doesn't. I think it is a test. I think that her testing me is unfair, and cruel. I guess OOT votes that I don't go and dump her huh? |
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
No one likes wakes/funerals.. sack up and go
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
If you like her and want to keep a good relationship you should go. If you don't care about her that much then you should break up with her and not go. Sounds like you are being tested but from your attitude she may have reason for doing so.
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
only you know whether she is capable of testing you in this manner, but i'm skeptical. it is far more likely that she just wants you to be there for her b/c she's hurting. i really doubt she is going to dump you if you say no, but she may not let you forget about it. either way you should let her know your reservations and go from there.
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
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whats my line? [/ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] she is horrible at bluffing me [/ QUOTE ] OP, how solid is your read? I'm thinking you can call the flop and say you'll go if you think a semi-bluff push (offering to be a pallbearer and to make a speech) will get her to fold on the turn. Worst case, you can open-fold the river and pretend you got the flu. |
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
just go. easy time to meet people as you dont have to be funny or talk very much
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Re: GF invites me to wake, whats my line?
this is kinda ridiculous. you need to break up with her. if any of my friends (let alone my gf) asked me to go to this, i would cancel my other plans without hesitation. |
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