what's your excuse for being single?

[pokah5]

i have commitment issues.

[diddyeinstein]

Many said it before but I think being introverted is my problem. Also I just don't see the appeal of marriage, kids, and all the ensuing crap.

[WMB]

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Being married today is serious -EV. Get hitched, have kids, buy house. 5 years down the road, argue all the time, no freedom, wife files for divorce, she gets the kids and the house, you pay $$$$ for the next 15 years and live in some crappy apartment...

Seriously, I've been single all my life and am happy as hell. Been in a couple semi serious relationships, but I've realized my freedom is more important.

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sounds like someone's been reading this

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lol, no I'd never seen that site but it looks like a good one.

[Kos13]

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I'm only attracted to girls who are too attractive to be attracted to me.

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QFT

I'm also too picky when it comes to personality. The freshman girls are too stupid and petty for my tastes, but the girls who are a year or less from graduating all have serious boyfriends. The few girls I find that are in that nice middle phase are either picking people over me or have some miniscule flaw that I cannot overlook.

[Anacardo]

Yeah, I'm in.

- I am a drifter whose social circles aren't very deep / stable.

- My work, hobbies, interests, etc. tend toward the solitary / competitive / high-concentration variety, and I have a below-average level of interest in what most people consider 'fun,' AKA distractions from thought.

- I'm fairly picky, when sober. Not so much physically, insofar as I don't have any set standards; I just look over a given package of girlgoods in gestalt sort of way and declare that it either works for me or it doesn't. It's more that I tend to write people's personalities off rather quickly, and jump to snap judgments about what people are like. "You have three chances to either laugh at what I say or *bonus* make me laugh, Random Girl. Two. One. Okay, never speak to me again."

- A man like me is an exotic taste, and the kinds of girls I'm most attracted to are pretty rare, too.

- I am a very hit-or-miss first impression. People often take a while to warm up to me.

- For me, most of the time, the idea of sexual desire is bound up inextricably with the idea of romance. I don't have a whole lot of interest in random ass, and the very notion of trying to pick up a girl that I don't even 'like' like is kind of unnatural for me. The idea of just drawing random chicks out of the deck until I stop on one I can stand also has little appeal for me. I recognize how this limits me but don't care.

- I am not physically attractive enough to be able to sleepwalk my way past all of the above.

[Fast Food Knight]

Cardo, I [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] you, sort of, but you are missing a couple of huuuuuge points regarding why you may be single.

[sethypooh21]

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i don't really want to not be single.

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/agree

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that is, unless i found the perfect girl, which i don't see happening.

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yup

[tuq]

Because I have >10K posts on an internet site in <2 years.

Oh wait I'm dating a chick now. LOL @ you single losers! [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[Guy Incognito]

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They are flaky, insane, moody, scandalous, and weird.

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Yeah, pretty much covers my thoughts.

I am insanely impatient, to the point where it's impossible for me to put up with the BS that inevitably accompanies 90%+ of girls who are 7/10+. With girls that are 6/10-, I know I'd only date them as a temporary solution, and I'm not into using people. So, single it is.

[Anacardo]

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Cardo, I [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] you, sort of, but you are missing a couple of huuuuuge points regarding why you may be single.

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FFK,

By all means tell these nice people what I left off!