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No and I'm not concerned with it in the slightest. It's not a matter of trust. [/ QUOTE ] So if I understand correctly you're cool with it and all so would it be okay if she held my d**k while we go skipping around naked together? I mean it's not like we're going to do anything or anything. |
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Of course I'd be cool with it! You have to let your GF be a free person, the person she wants to be.. If she wants to go and participate in an 8some with those same people, you should be cool with that. Stop being such an uptight nit. Stop trying to be such an oppressive power freak.
And, if she wants to come home and take a crap on your face, you should let her do that too.. Because if you're not willing to do these things for her, you certainly can't care too much for her. FOR CHRIST'S SAKE, GIVE THE FUKKING GIRL SOME ROOM TO BREATHE. |
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kurosh...
the correct response here is to ask her why she would think this would be cool in the first place, then tell her you're obviously uncomfortable with the situation. if she insists on getting naked (who the [censored] plans these things out in advance anyway, tbh it sounds like she's already done it and is asking now) with other guys, that's her choice, but i'd really need a good reason to go on with the relationship at that point. |
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women like to play sick little mind games [/ QUOTE ] It took me a long time to learn. Feminism really screwed things up. I like and respect women, and that killed me in the relationship arena for years. 'Nice, sensitive, caring' guys finish last. In sex and relationships, humans are still animals. A woman wants to be with a tough, fighting, protector and provider. That's why the jock creeps who treat women like sh1t get all the hot high school girls. The girl will trade 'being treated nicely' for 'feeling protected'. She wants to raise her brood in a safe cave. If you dither about these things, you lose. |
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Ok, apparently it was a misunderstanding and I have a tendancy to overreact. It would be her, her best friend (male), another guy she's friends with and a girl. I know all of them besides the girl. They were considering inviting her ex because he's very good friends with all of them, but had not yet. There were no plans of skinny dipping. I think she just got upset because I asked her if they were and she took it as accusatory so she said if it happens, she'd do it. Now that she's explained everything to me, I am fine. The chances of them skinny dipping at all were extremely low in the first place. Yes, this is my ex-gf that was causing me lots of grief and indirectly got me kicked out of college. Can we move the discussion off the specific situation and onto the topic in general now? All these posts about her being a whore and cheating on me make me paranoid.
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Now I know there's another girl involved, I am somewhat less opposed to the whole thing.
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... Someone is running a train
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FOR CHRIST'S SAKE, GIVE THE FUKKING GIRL SOME ROOM TO BREATHE. [/ QUOTE ] Every one who has given advice contrary to the above must have a small wiener and be fundamentaly insecure in their relationships with women. Though I think there might be an age distribution amongst the yes and no votes. |
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her best friend (male) [/ QUOTE ] Hope her best friend is gay. 95% of womans male friends are only friends because they want to get laid or have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. |
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[ QUOTE ] FOR CHRIST'S SAKE, GIVE THE FUKKING GIRL SOME ROOM TO BREATHE. [/ QUOTE ] Every one who has given advice contrary to the above must have a small wiener and be fundamentaly insecure in their relationships with women. Though I think there might be an age distribution amongst the yes and no votes. [/ QUOTE ] First of all the guy was being sarcastic. Second of all, what you call fundamentaly insecure I would call common sense, and I am sure many others do also. |
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