As me about being a former swinger/sex freak

[bkholdem]

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What in your opinion were the bare minimum physical attributes required to be deemed a 'select male.'

Was there a certain height/weight requirement? Optimal body mass index?

Sex is mathematics.

I need numbers!

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Well you can get in the 'off premises' places probably by just paying the cover charge.

In cities with lots of swing clubs the requirements are less than in places with only 1 or 2 within hundreds of miles.

In some of the smaller house party swing things you might be able to get in by being a metro sexual sensitive dude, don't know, never tried.

But young, tall, fit, and hung is preferred. Particularly the fit and hung. I don't know the minimums.

Some places have one night they let in single dudes but if there is no screening it can become a cluster f&^* with like dozens of dudes almost stalking the couples/chicks so those places usually have a separate area where only couples can go (or if your personally invited by a couple).

And the underground places had no requirements really hhahaa

[bkholdem]

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Does anyone else find it odd that OP went to these events alone? Sounds like an inexpensive alternative to getting a hooker.

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If you were going to go to one of these places, would you want your friends knowing about it?

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I just thought the whole point of swinging was to do it as a couple. You come to the party to get some sex but you're also offering up your partner to pleasure/get pleasure from others. Otherwise it just seems like a ploy to get some guaranteed ass. Maybe this is "LDO" but it seems strange to me.

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IMO it's waaayyy better to go there as a single guy and tap some other dudes chicks and they don't tap yours cuz she's not with you (if you have one) hahaha

Who cares about passing off your chick to some other guy as a positive thing? lol hahahaaa It's better to have their chicks only lol

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Well, presumably they restrict single guys in order to keep the male-to-female ratio pretty reasonable, right? What % of patrons were typically male?

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They really don't want places to go over say 55% male 45% female. The places that do allow a much bigger differential can become a cluster f&^% where all the guys wind up c^%$ blocking each other. Those places usually only have 1 night of the week like that and have separate couples only sex areas as well.

Some on premises clubs are really cool, dance floors, bars, buffet's, hot tubs,...

I remember once I was pounding some dudes wife in the bar area pretty early in the night, I think we were the first to have sex in the place and others were just showing up and getting warmed up and stuff. It was almost like dropping trou and pounding some chick in the middle of the dance floor at a bar on a slow monday night with a couple dozen patrons just sitting around drinking LMAO

[oddjob]

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Sex is mathematics.

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Yeah, we wish.

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yah if this were true, every asian would be getting it all the time.

[slickpoppa]

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IMO it's waaayyy better to go there as a single guy and tap some other dudes chicks and they don't tap yours cuz she's not with you (if you have one) hahaha

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Well obviously, right! Haha. I guess I'm just confused that they would let/encourage single guys' attendance.

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He mentioned in an earlier post that he was one of the select few guys allowed in by himself

[Apathy]

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remember once I was pounding some dudes wife in the bar area pretty early in the night...

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My question sort of stems from this.

What exactly would be a typical conversation before this act would take place? I imagine people are pretty blunt in these places. Would the couple come up to you and ask you to [censored]? Just the women? Were there lots of times you would approach complete strangers and just ask them to [censored] or was there a little typical small talk in most situations?

Basically what is the pre sex protocol?

[bkholdem]

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remember once I was pounding some dudes wife in the bar area pretty early in the night...

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My question sort of stems from this.

What exactly would be a typical conversation before this act would take place? I imagine people are pretty blunt in these places. Would the couple come up to you and ask you to [censored]? Just the women? Were there lots of times you would approach complete strangers and just ask them to [censored] or was there a little typical small talk in most situations?

Basically what is the pre sex protocol?

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It depended on the individuals and the atmosphere. If it's in the bar area or dance area and your meeting you need to make small talk, people are dressed, etc.

If people are engaged in foreplay you can use eye contact and body language to see if your welcomed in on the action.

If outright sex is going on someone might walk over with their dick in their hand and get a wave off lol. Basically it's against protocol to go in and touch without permission.

[bkholdem]

Additional interesting information:

I never did this but occasionally some dude will hire an escort to pose as his wife/girlfriend and make arrangements ahead of time what she will and wonn't do but it's a sure way to get in any club that does not do advance screening of clients.

A funny thing I heard from some dude that used to go to Plato's retreat in NYC (around in the 70's and very early 80's I think, huge place, hundreds of people). He would basically just invite some random lady out on a date for dinner and dancing. He would tell her to dress up for a nice date. He would take her to Plato's Retreat wihtout telling her it was a swinging club so he could get in the door and then just blow her off. It would take her a little bit to figure out what was up because at the entrance the places look like a normal club wiht a dance floor and people dressed and dancing, etc.

The place waa so big and populated it was impossible to tell if he was a solo male once inside the place lol.

[RPatterson67]

That guy was smooth lol.