Another First Date Thread

[samsonite2100]

Jesus. This thread is a truly painful read. Do you really need advice here? My tip is, pull your head out of your ass and go for the kiss.

[siccjay]

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Well I figured I would oblige to the people that hate when posters make threads like these and never respond back with a trip report so here it is:

First of all I know its been awhile but there has been some reasons. She blew off a few more dates then we went our ways and she came running back within a few days and said how she was sorry about all that happened and that she was admittedley nervous and hanging out and proceeding with a relationship. So we start talking again and we agree to wait until college to hang out so we do.

Fast forward a month or so to last night. She comes to my place and we watch Disturbia. We get really close and she gave me plenty of body language signals that I should of used to kiss-close her but I'm a wuss and we ended up just cuddling for a few hours. All intentions were for us to go back to her place to sleep as long as I passed her "test" she called it. Well obviously that didnt work out and I ended up dropping her off late at night.

I'm fairly certain her test was how good of a kisser I was. But I just can't get myself to overcome my shyness around first kisses and pull it off. Did I blow my chance here and what is my move from this point forward. Btw we talked for a little while after I dropped her off and she texted me right away this morning so these are good signs right? Any tips on pulling my head out of my ass and going for the kiss?

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You have got to be [censored] kidding me. Being awkward with first kisses is one thing, but this is just plain retarded!!!!!! I mean what in the hell could have happened bad here? You were cuddled up on the couch! Was she not gonna kiss you? Jesus you are a pussy.

[Alobar]

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what is my move from this point forward.

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move on to some chick who doesn't actually tell you have to pass any sort of test to be with her.

wtf, I would laugh at some girl if she told me that, then id send her packing.

[It's Brandt]

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Movies in theaters are AWFUL first dates.

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[bisonbison]

A girl who is interested in you doesn't put you off, ever.

Retarded. Do you date a lot of shut-ins?

[bisonbison]

OK, made it to the end of the thread. DEAR GOD. DO YOU LIKE GIRLS?

[Anacardo]

S'jay,

What is meant by 'Aqua Man that hoe?'

Warm regards,

'Cardo.

[IggyWH]

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A girl who is interested in you doesn't put you off, ever.

Retarded. Do you date a lot of shut-ins?

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Brian has banged more Myspace chicks than you can shake a stick at [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[mxer7734]

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OK, made it to the end of the thread. DEAR GOD. DO YOU LIKE GIRLS?


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I have social anxiety very badly and am pretty shy around women in general. So obviously this is a bigger deal to me than many of you. It may seem childish or even retarded but social anxiety is not the easiest thing to overcome. And to answer your question, yes I do like girls or else I wouldn't be on 2+2 asking for dating advice when its obvious I'm head over heels for this girl and don't want to mess anything up.

[MacGuyV]

Not sure OP deserves this criticism. You're doing a fine job of keeping her guessing. Wait until she writes "[censored] me" on her forehead in black magic marker, then wait 2 months & go to another movie.