Don't want to date single moms

[BigPoppa]

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i wonder if jesus had told her to blow me in my car on the second date

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Of course he did.
It got you to call his name a few times, didn't it?

[ArcticKnight]

.....your not a jerk. It's better for you and her and the kid if you are not in a position that you don't want to be in.

FWIW, I'd be more ticked about they way she played it out, as oppossed to the fact she had a kid.

[Edge34]

OP,

FWIW, I figure she probably gave you 4 dates so you could at least get a chance to get to know her without the drama of the kid hanging over you. If you liked her enough to go out on thr 4th date, this doesn't seem an unreasonable start.

You weren't a jerk about it - she knows kids are a deal breaker for lots of guys, I'm sure, and she's pissed that she got dealt this card. However, its not like she was a total bitch to not tell you for fear of scaring you away before you even got to know each other. I think the time frame involving 4 dates is important. Did you only go out once a week so she waited a whole month of talking between dates, or what?

Breakdown - Don't blame you for not wanting to date single mom. Don't blame mom for not telling you right away. Life moves on.

[Hollywade]

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I personally find there are a lot of advantages to dating sinlge moms

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Please elaborate...

[mason55]

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Most single women in their mid-late 20s don't have kids. Not sure where your friends are getting their info.

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I disagree. Of the "single" women. A lot of them have children.

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single and mid to late 20's? there's no way that "most single women in their mid-late 20's have kids." absolutely no way.

[ncboiler]

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Friends also tried to fix me up with a mother of 2 kids (different dads) and I said no thanks.

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nh

[Felix_Nietzsche]

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Please elaborate...

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For me the two things I value most in life are:
1. Money
2. Getting laid

I find with single moms you can save alot of money dating them because many times you stay in, watch a movie, and have great sex after the kids are in bed. So I find I don't have to spend much money on restaurants, drinks, and entertainment. THEN...they are more grateful than single women. Single moms are a gold mine for getting laid and many of them are good looking women. As for the kids, I like kids and I'm good with kids so they are not a negative for me.... Now marrying a woman with kids.....this is more complicated. Taking on this financial responsibility is a bigger commitment...

[suzzer99]

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You're not a jerk but,

single moms = sex on the first date in a stretched out box

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FYP

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You'd be surprised how well that thing bounces back. A woman who was tight before is still going to be tight.

[ArcticKnight]

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Please elaborate...

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For me the two things I value most in life are:
1. Keeping Money
2. Getting laid

I find with single moms you can save alot of money dating them because many times you stay in, watch a movie, and have great sex after the kids are in bed. So I find I don't have to spend much money on restaurants, drinks, and entertainment. THEN...they are more grateful than single women. Single moms are a gold mine for getting laid and many of them are good looking women. As for the kids, I like kids and I'm good with kids so they are not a negative for me.... Now marrying a woman with kids.....this is more complicated. Taking on this financial responsibility is a bigger commitment...

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FYP.....you could have said single moms are like free hookers. I do hope a few more "values" creep into your life.

[cowboy2579]

I like how society at large condemns men that don't want to commit their resources to raising bastards. Its enlightened.