Girl Situation w/Pics

[c4mg]

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how hard is it to find out if she is dating someone?

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That would be pretty easy, but I am guessing she still is. She is not like a real popular girl, in the sense that she doesn't hang out with "that" crowd if you know what I mean?
Also, goofy keik and others, I do really appreciate the serious advice...

[keikiwai]

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Who cares if she has a boyfriend?

You: Hey [enter her name], I'm going to the basketball game on Friday, you should join me.

Her: I have a boyfriend.

You: Good for you! It's just a basketball game, not your parents bed while they run out to do shopping. It'll be fun.

The end.

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[BingoBango]

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"Kayla, would you like to go to a 76ers game with me?"

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I hope this is not her real name, do you want to get trainwrecked?

[pirateboy]

Saying "Kayla, would you like to go to a 76ers game with me?" is chump. You're going to the game, it's going to be a blast, and you'd allow her to come, too. if she says no, "you're still going anyway." Get it?

By the way, searching Myspace for Kayla's in Philly.

[One Outer]

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Who cares if she has a boyfriend?

You: Hey [enter her name], I'm going to the basketball game on Friday, you should join me.

Her: I have a boyfriend.

You: Good for you! It's just a basketball game, not marriage. It'll be fun.

The end.

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I like this. Also, you don't have to take her to the basketball game. Look, if she likes you she'll dump the boyfriend to date you. If she won't do that she wasn't going to go out with you to begin with.

Quit being such a [censored] whiner.

[goofyballer]

This is exactly the kind of forecasting I'm talking about. You need to stop thinking so goddamn much.

No, it's not instantaneous, but you have to start talking to her and hanging out with her so she realizes you're a cool dude who wants her, and then she'll break up with him.

GA can talk about this area better than me but ask her to a game anyway. It shouldn't be a "date", so either get cheap tickets so she can afford to buy hers or if they're nice seats then be like "oh my dad's friend got these through his company and thought I would want to go" or something, cause you don't want her to know that you're buying tickets just for her as that is decidedly date-like. But do be friendly and flirty.

[keikiwai]

also, if she is dating, let's say you go do something, and you try to kiss her or something, and she pulls the "omg no...... i cannot possibly kiss you while i'm going out with mr dreamboat"

well.... 5 days later... when "mr dreamboat" gets caught [censored] the some girl on the cheerleader squad in the back of his pickup, Kayla will remember that you seemed nice and flirty and BOOM!

[c4mg]

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Saying "Kayla, would you like to go to a 76ers game with me?" is chump. You're going to the game, it's going to be a blast, and you'd allow her to come, too. if she says no, "you're still going anyway." Get it?

By the way, searching Myspace for Kayla's in Philly.

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Go for it. No Facebook or Myspace. Plus it is a nickname.

[pirateboy]

And remember to be funny and non-needy. You are the party, and you're allowing her to join in.

[goofyballer]

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well.... 5 days later... when "mr dreamboat" get caught [censored] the some girl on the cheerleader squad in the back of his pickup, Kayla will remember you and BOOM!

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Meh, I wouldn't count on this.