lol VOX has a date

[FCBLComish]

Calling her on the phone is +EV. It is like a check-raise for information. You will know immediately if you should continue in the hand or fold.

No brainer.

[fmxda]

I would go with the note online (maybe post on her wall), because you dont want the awkwardness of a first time sober phone convo

Personally I wouldn't mention things you/her might be sorta insecure about like the woods and the money issue

My line would just to be kinda laid back and show that I don't want her too much; just display a "come what may" attitude

This is all very girl-dependent, we could use reads

[VOX]

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this thread is worthless without pics of shoes

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IT CAN BE SHOEPR0N TIEM NOW PLZ

They are the most comfortable shoes I've ever owned.

[amplify]

Did a sentient symbiote from space take over your footwear by any chance?

[VOX]

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I would go with the note online (maybe post on her wall), because you dont want the awkwardness of a first time sober phone convo

Personally I wouldn't mention things you/her might be sorta insecure about like the woods and the money issue

My line would just to be kinda laid back and show that I don't want her too much; just display a "come what may" attitude

This is all very girl-dependent, we could use reads

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I think the post on the wall is massively -EV, for reasons anyone can see. I'm going to call -- if she doesn't answer, I'll send her some form of the weak-passive note and then write it off.

[Our House]

Wow, I missed this:

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but then I check my Facebook and this is there:

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She didn't even have the balls to call you?

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VOX,
I absolutely hate to do this to you, but I'm going to have to cancel. The funds in my bank account just aren't condusive to a brunch; I really can't justify it since I'm not working right now. I'm sorry. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

What's my play?

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"Re: Cancel

Thanks for asking my option first. I was going to pay your way, but now I don't have to. Fortunately, you were the only one who had to cancel. I got another brunch date.

Cheers,
VOX

P.S. See you next tuesday."

[FCBLComish]

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I would go with the note online (maybe post on her wall), because you dont want the awkwardness of a first time sober phone convo

Personally I wouldn't mention things you/her might be sorta insecure about like the woods and the money issue

My line would just to be kinda laid back and show that I don't want her too much; just display a "come what may" attitude

This is all very girl-dependent, we could use reads

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I think the post on the wall is massively -EV, for reasons anyone can see. I'm going to call -- if she doesn't answer, I'll send her some form of the weak-passive note and then write it off.

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NH Sir.

[VOX]

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Wow, I missed this:

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but then I check my Facebook and this is there:

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She didn't even have the balls to call you?

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VOX,
I absolutely hate to do this to you, but I'm going to have to cancel. The funds in my bank account just aren't condusive to a brunch; I really can't justify it since I'm not working right now. I'm sorry. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

What's my play?

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"Re: Cancel

Thanks for asking my option first. I was going to pay your way, but now I don't have to. Fortunately, you were the only one who had to cancel. I got another brunch date.

Cheers,
VOX

P.S. See you next tuesday."

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The lack of a phone call this morning screams disinterest. However, messages on Facebook are the only method of communication we've had, so maybe she is genuinely embarrassed.

I'm going to call -- it's a 2-outer, but I'm pot committed.

[VOX]

No answer. Mucks hand.

[Our House]

If she cancelled the date before affording you the opportunity to respond, a phone call (or going forward at all) isn't worth it IMO.