BBV HOW ARE YOU BALLER/NOT BALLER?

[SEABEAST]

balla: i get cabs everywhere, and pay people to cook all my meals. i eat at a nice restaraunt nearly every night.

un-balla: i don't have a drivers license or a car, i can't cook, and my fridge is always empty.

balla: ive made enough this year to put down a sizable downpayment on a nice house.

un-balla: i still live in a crappy apartment surrounded by peasants and freaks.

balla: most of my friends owe me money and i dont really care. also, i paid for a good friend to move to another city because i knew it was the best thing for her.

unballa: i never see any of my friends b/c im always sitting at home playing poker

[willie]

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unballa-
I'm feeling physically sick because my girlfriend of 3 years and first serious relationship broke up with me and is basically telling me she just wants to be friends with very little prospect of getting back together.

god help me. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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busto.


sucks dude, i'm w/ my gf 3 years now and i'd be trashed if she ditched me.....

sorry bro. [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]

[boomshakalaka]

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unballa-
I'm feeling physically sick because my girlfriend of 3 years and first serious relationship broke up with me and is basically telling me she just wants to be friends with very little prospect of getting back together.

god help me. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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yah I recently broke up with my first serious girlfreind. After such a long time its kinda weird to be on your own and whatnot.

[awebz]

thanks for the support guys. is there anything reasonable I can do at this point?
just feel very lost

[JaBlue]

non-baller:

-do not own a TV
-do not own car, have insurance, know how to drive, or have a license
- very excited to find $10 bill at Mission Bay
- outraged at $6 per gallon organic milk at Whole Foods (my first visit there, F that place)
-don't feel like I have anything to spend money on

baller:
-paying for school and expenses

[w_alloy]

Balla:
-Made 6 figures in last 6 weeks
-Jumped into mid stakes nl with no experience and immediately started beating the games for as much as anyone
-I am in good shape and at or near division 2 calliber athlete in 4 sports.

Unballa:
-Drive a 99 saturn
-Spend 6-10 hours a day in front of a computer
-Can only make myslef work for an average of 3 of those hours
-No GF or sex for too long
-Didnt graduate HS
-Turned 21 3 weeks ago and still have never been to a bar/strip club

[AceCR9]

Balla:
- My Laptop got a virus last week, and it shuts down automatically once everything loads. Instead of re-installing wondows/fixing it I went out and bought a new computer.
- Bought a $410 Bike today, and I live in NY so I can only use it half the year.
-Eat out almost every day, and never fast food(besides Subway)
- feel broke w/o a few hundred in my wallet, even tho I live in a college town where the most I could spend on something is like $50.


Unballa
- drive a 01' Hyundai Accent, my 1st car I got at 17.
-walk/ride bike to class about 15-20min walk away, cause I don't want to spend $100/yr to buy a parking pass.
-Im a avid frisbee golf player.

[palman]

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Balla:
-Made 6 figures in last 6 weeks
-Jumped into mid stakes nl with no experience and immediately started beating the games for as much as anyone
-I am in good shape and at or near division 2 calliber athlete in 4 sports.

Unballa:
-Drive a 99 saturn
-Spend 6-10 hours a day in front of a computer
-Can only make myslef work for an average of 3 of those hours
-No GF or sex for too long
-Didnt graduate HS
-Turned 21 3 weeks ago and still have never been to a bar/strip club

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It's relatively difficult for someone who didn't attend college, and who works online to make friends. This is likely why you didn't have someone take you out to a bar on your 21st. Strip clubs are no big deal, but no bar is strange. Mix that together with making 6 figures, and it seems your best course of action is moving to Vegas and playing live for a few months to meet some ppl.

[boomshakalaka]

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Balla:
-Made 6 figures in last 6 weeks
-Jumped into mid stakes nl with no experience and immediately started beating the games for as much as anyone
-I am in good shape and at or near division 2 calliber athlete in 4 sports.

Unballa:
-Drive a 99 saturn
-Spend 6-10 hours a day in front of a computer
-Can only make myslef work for an average of 3 of those hours
-No GF or sex for too long
-Didnt graduate HS
-Turned 21 3 weeks ago and still have never been to a bar/strip club

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strip clubs are lame and a lot are 18+. And most bars arent that great.

[absoludicrous]

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thanks for the support guys. is there anything reasonable I can do at this point?
just feel very lost

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Get out and go have fun. Take it easy for a while, just kick it with the friends, party, have good time. Eventually you'll start dating again. Take it in stride, get over it, and move on...you can do it man!