Whats My Play ? Ex-Boyf lingering around...

[rwanger]

Are you people reading some extra information I'm not? There is no advice to be given other than: "move on".

She's already cooled things with you, and thus, it's too late. If it'll make you feel warm and fuzzy inside, tell her: "I just want you to be happy." Then promptly remove your testicles.

[DcifrThs]

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I'm 22 and to be honest, if any girl my age told me that she's dating/banging some 40 year old, I would cringe. I would not date a girl like this. She certainly has issues so you should run, and run hard.

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wrong. many girls tend to be attracted to older men.

maturity, stability, experience all attract certain types of women. ive dated a few of them and w/o fail it was those qualities that drove them to the arms of the elder man.

in the end htough, they were all flings. nobody i knew SERIOUSLY dated an older man (of that much difference) for more than a few months.

either way. show her you care and yadda yadda yadda.

barron

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I don't have nearly the life/social experience as many of you guys so my view could very easily be wrong but I dunno, I if a 20 year old was telling me she dated some 40 year old, I would immediately think that she has huge problems.

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maybe not 20. but for 22-28, it would be a mistake to assume there is something wrong w/ the girl for dating a 33-40 y/o man (and i do know 20 y/os who dated 33 y/os and they are prefectly normal well adjusted, and now happier, girls)

further, my ex dated directly after me a 36 y/o and she was 21 at the time. he was the best sex she's had to date.

she is no more worse off for dating him and i can't fault her. some girls find older men attractive and that is a fact.

Barron

[Vehn]

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further, my ex dated directly after me a 36 y/o and she was 21 at the time. he was the best sex she's had to date

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