Men: Would you have issues dating someone 10 years older?

[ArcticKnight]

When I was 14 I spent hours every evening envisioning this very scenerio.

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No.

Everyone saying yes is being ridiculous in some way.

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Maybe you're looking at this the wrong way. Let's try another angle:

10 years or older pussy or masturbating?

Since when is dating automatically = getting married and pumping out kids? What's wrong with simply having a healthy sexual relationship with another adult?

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I don't understand what you're saying. And I think you don't understand what I'm saying.

[Dids]

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No.

Everyone saying yes is being ridiculous in some way.

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That doesn't mean it's not true though. Ridic issues are still issues.

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No.

Everyone saying yes is being ridiculous in some way.

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That doesn't mean it's not true though. Ridic issues are still issues.

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Touche'; their answer can still be "yes" and be true. It doesn't make it any less ridiculous, though.

[tuq]

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Also, as far as signs of her age - there are none. She's tight and fit, physically my ideal woman.

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You know what you need to do here.

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Um, I don't want kids, so I wouldnt care.

You guys are pretty hardcore thinking about having kids and spending 10+ years with a woman as soon as you start dating her. Why not just see what happens?

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Well I'm almost 32. Mentally I am starting to get ready to settle down. I'm pretty sure my next g/f of 6+ months will end up being my wife . So I wouldn't even consider dating a woman 10 years older because I'm not interested in playing games anymore. And let's face it, if you date someone for a year and still not sure if you are marrying her, you are just playing games and wasting time. It's fine when you are 20-30, but every woman's biological clock stops ticking at some point.

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This is how you're "choosing" your wife? The next girl worth 6 months is good for a lifetime because you decided it's time? That sounds really weird to me.

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Me too, except that I think some variation of that is very common.

[DrewDevil]

There are many, many advantages to dating a 35 year old woman who works out all the time and is in great shape.

Many, many advantages.

[KotOD]

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I agree with everything KotOD said other then the "more physical and sexual" comment. This has to be a joke or some kind of sick level, no?

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You should hone your hunting skills.

[Leaky Eye]

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No.

Everyone saying yes is being ridiculous in some way.

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Edit: QFT

When I was your age I dated someone ten years older than me for quite a while. It was never an issue. Older women are less silly and retarded, better at sex, and generally more interesting in every way.

Now that I am in my mid-thirties I would still date someone ten years older. I know plenty of hot women in that age range. It would probably suck when elderly though. I guess I won't know how I feel about that until I am older.

Btw, I never dated with the intention of getting married. So I didn't have any of the premature lifelong concerns expressed by some folks in this thread (I did end up married).

Edit: I misunderstood the no/yes part.

[Quicksilvre]

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Hell, I'd rather do the mom than the daughter, and it isn't even close.

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Lordy, QFT. I [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img] Lauren Graham.


That said, I just turned twenty, so I would have to date someone thirty to qualify--she would probably already established with a career, etc. while I still have two years of college to go. I strongly doubt I could make a 10+ year difference work until I actually get out and do some living. Five or seven years from now, my answer would probably be different.