OOT:Decide the fate of my relationship

[4_2_it]

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To the OP - welcome to life. You're going to go thru this several more times. It doesn't get easier. The posters who argue that you're better off starting college solo are probably right, and it's the most fair thing for her.

"Most everyone can agree that the girl you date in high school is your last opportunity at a good relationship, so don't blow it." - most everyone under the age of twenty, maybe. This has to be in the running for the stupidest comment I've seen posted - and that's saying a lot.

MM MD

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Your sarcasm detector needs a tune up.

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I think he should purchase a new one.

[Baloosh]

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Post a pic of you two together so we can see if you can do any better.

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Duder, he's asking OOT for actual life advice in a serious way. The answer to that question is obvious.

[Ditch Digger]

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Post a pic of you two together so we can see if you can do any better.

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I'm sure I could, but I don't know if that's a real important part of this thread...either way I don't feel like finding a decent picture of me.

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It's important because if you are butt ass ugly you probably should just keep her.

[David H]

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Post a pic of you two together so we can see if you can do any better.

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Duder, he's asking OOT for actual life advice in a serious way. The answer to that question is obvious.

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I feel lame even defending myself on an Internet forum, but I'm at least moderately good-looking, and I'm not socially retarded. I could easily get other girls if I wanted to.

[John Spartan]

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Is she pregnant?

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thats what i was wondering.

[David H]

No she's not pregnant.

[wdogg40]

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Post a pic of you two together so we can see if you can do any better.

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Duder, he's asking OOT for actual life advice in a serious way. The answer to that question is obvious.

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I feel lame even defending myself on an Internet forum, but I'm at least moderately good-looking, and I'm not socially retarded. I could easily get other girls if I wanted to.

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So if you are confident that you can get other girls you probably will have those opportunities at school.

So you can either stay with your current g/f and cheat on her feel guilty about it and break up anyway.

Turn away other girls always wondering what it would have been like, while probably breaking up with your current g/f anyways.

Or break up with your girl and take chances trying to hook up with college girls, guilt free.

Dont forget the most important thing about college is hard core binge drinking.

[David H]

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Dont forget the most important thing about college is hard core binge drinking.

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Ha between my OP and this post you guys are probably going to think I'm lame, but I don't really plan on drinking a whole lot in college. I've gotten wasted one time, didn't really like it all that much, and I like smoking better(which I do about once a week...trying to quit completely)

I box and I'm trying to lose about 35-40 LBs for that, and I'll have to keep that weight off.

So yeah not a lot of drinking for me.

[El Diablo]

David,

Digger is right. She is a cute girl, but it's hard to give any advice beyond that. Post a pic of the two of you and what college you are going to (if you don't want to reveal the actual college that is fine, just refer to it as "large southern state university" or "small northeast liberal arts college" or "east coast engineering university" or whatever else) and we can let you know how she stacks up vs. the girls you are likely to be able to get in college. Oh, if you're going to Arizona State, yeah, break up with her.

[hoyasnaxa]

lol at going to Arizona state and trying to quit smoking. You might as well go to the University of Amsterdam.