Calling chick I just met on her birthday?

[VictorOfAveyron]

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Of COURSE you should send flowers tomorrow. There's nothing a new girl likes more than a guy who's obviously emo, trying too hard and pathetic. Every time I get a new girl's number I immediately google her address and send the flowers. Works like a [censored] charm.

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Solid advice. I would also buy her something shiny.

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Also call her first thing in the morning before everyone else gets a chance and when she picks up sing the Happy Birthday song.

[Vehn]

I would go the "her name and birthday tattoo on your wrist" route

[tarheeljks]

buying a piece of jewelry seems over the top. just send her a text or something and then give her a card when you go to dinner

[MicroBob]

I think this can be really situation/person dependant.

Flowers OR simple jewelry strike me as both being potentially equally weird/intimidating for having just met someone.

If you're somewhat smooth then I guess you could pull this off somewhat with a laugh and go from there.
But the least bit of awkwardness about this will leave it as a really big WTF moment. "He doesn't even freaking know me and he got me jewelry? WEIRDO!!!"


If it doesn't feel like a good idea to your situation then you probably shouldn't go with your instincts on this and not be talked into something that in your gut strikes you as potentially too weird.

[swingdoc]

No, no guys I've got it. Call her mom and request pics. THEN photoshop the two of you together with wedding attire on!!!! IT'S [censored] GENIUS! Other than flowers and desperate emo crying, nothing gets a girl out of her panties on a first date like hints at marriage.

[pergesu]

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I think this can be really situation/person dependant.

Flowers OR simple jewelry strike me as both being potentially equally weird/intimidating for having just met someone.

If you're somewhat smooth then I guess you could pull this off somewhat with a laugh and go from there.
But the least bit of awkwardness about this will leave it as a really big WTF moment. "He doesn't even freaking know me and he got me jewelry? WEIRDO!!!"


If it doesn't feel like a good idea to your situation then you probably shouldn't go with your instincts on this and not be talked into something that in your gut strikes you as potentially too weird.

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At the risk of being uberleveled...the jewelry stuff was a joke.

[KungFuManchu]

Clearly this is the perfect time for a singing telegram, it's what they were [censored] made for. You people and you're [censored] text messages.

[KungFuManchu]

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Shes already got an opinion of you and has already decided whether or not you are ever going to sniff her panties. If she likes you, flowers will be a big hit, and if she doesnt they will creep her out.

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Word. If she likes you it doesnt really matter what you do as long as its not some crazy all out escapade. If she likes you some what and just doesnt always go out with random dudes on dates, then you can txt, call, etc, it doesnt matter.

[Heavens_Myst]

op i didnt read most of the replies, but u seem like the absolutely creep type, so send a dozen white roses to whoo her

[MicroBob]

pergesu - arrgh, it's late (early?) so I'll use that as my excuse for being as slow and gullible as I usually am.
I've officially been gotten. Oh well.