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#31
06-11-2007, 11:31 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
you have to be so carefullll
the youngin's hook up with you fast and easy, the post it on myspace? come onnnnn thats outrageous but whyyyyy do they do it? they help each other out by getting them caught, its a [censored] up way of life with them. 
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#32
06-11-2007, 11:57 AM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
monogamy is for bible thumpers, if it wasnt for the [censored] societal and religious constraints/brainwashing we wouldnt have to lie to the girls. but its in the best interest of general happiness to cheat when you can and lie about it.
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#33
06-11-2007, 12:04 PM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
Yep.. def don't tell... as soon as I found out my gf cheated on me.. our relationship was over. I loved her to death but you just can't trust someone after you find something liek that out. She was a dum [censored] and let herself get caught.. I was at least sneaky and never told her bout the 10+ chics I'd done over the last 5 years. Mine were all one night stands though.. that whore started fukin the same dudes I believe.. there's a big difference.
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#34
06-11-2007, 12:11 PM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
Some good stuff in here...thanks. Especially the blue lobster, awesome.
A few things: - I never considered telling my gf, don't think that would accomplish anything. - I've had a few opportunities to cheat in the past 5 yrs but have turned them all down. - I think that one of the reasons that I went through with it this time is that I know I am going to marry this girl soon...maybe backwards but I feel like if I am going to fool around at all this would be the time to do it. - I DON'T wanna be a "lostsoul" my whole life...once I am married I'd hope I'll go back to my faithful self out of respect for my wife and esp if we have kids - unless like Adriana Lima shows up at my door or somthing. - I agree with what some people said about being able to be fully in love and invested in one girl while still wanting to bang other chicks - its human nature. The only reason not to cheat is out of respect for your gf. Just cuz you want to spread your seed a little doesn't mean that you need to break off a great relationship.
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#35
06-11-2007, 12:23 PM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
How old are you?
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#36
06-11-2007, 12:24 PM
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] fool around all you want, just two main things that you MUST do if you love your gf if you do this: 1. Do Not Get Caught 2. Do Not Start Treating GF Differently [/ QUOTE ] IF you're going to continue doing it, then just break up. Don't sit there and say you love her while you're [censored] behind her back and lying about it. Break up or stop cheating. You either want to be with her or you don't. [/ QUOTE ] Sad, sad, misguided soul. Why? Why should he break up with her? He can love her and still bang other women. Just because u have sex with another women doesn't mean u love the one u are with any less. Do u drive another car at your job? does that mean u like your own car any less? Do u ever eat different kinds of food? Does that mean u love your favorite food any less? Have u had more then one pet in your life? Does that mean u love the pet u had when u were alittle kid any less? U only get one shot at this world might as well enjoy it while u are here. [/ QUOTE ] all of these examples are really [censored] stupid. sorry [/ QUOTE ] QFT
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06-11-2007, 12:24 PM
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06-11-2007, 12:25 PM
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monogamy is for bible thumpers, if it wasnt for the [censored] societal and religious constraints/brainwashing we wouldnt have to lie to the girls. but its in the best interest of general happiness to cheat when you can and lie about it. [/ QUOTE ] it wouldn't disturb you to think your wife is having sex with other men?
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#39
06-11-2007, 12:25 PM
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- I DON'T wanna be a "lostsoul" my whole life...once I am married I'd hope I'll go back to my faithful self out of respect for my wife and esp if we have kids - unless like Adriana Lima shows up at my door or somthing. [/ QUOTE ] Do it more now and you'll never see a reason to stop. You're fooling yourself if you think you will just because of marriage.
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06-11-2007, 12:28 PM
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Re: Kinda cheated on gf...bit of a moral dilemma.
[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ] - I DON'T wanna be a "lostsoul" my whole life...once I am married I'd hope I'll go back to my faithful self out of respect for my wife and esp if we have kids - unless like Adriana Lima shows up at my door or somthing. [/ QUOTE ] Do it more now and you'll never see a reason to stop. You're fooling yourself if you think you will just because of marriage. [/ QUOTE ] This is what I'm worried about and kinda what I wanted to hear.
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