How much did I f up?

[Alobar]

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I have been in a serious and monogamous relationship for 4 yrs. We are very much in love. 25 yrs old for reference. I have never been with another girl.

A few days ago I got touchy feely with another girl. No kissing or sex of any type. I regret it tremendously and obviously wish it never happened. She does not know at this time.

I do not want anyone, but my girlfriend. I know I would never do this again. I had to make myself throw-up just to fall asleep the other night.

Any advice on the situation?

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So you didnt lose your virginity till you were 21, this is your first relationship and its gone on for 4 years, and you had to throw up you felt so guilt you held some other girls hand?

Normally, id say you need to break up with your GF go out and experience the world, but you sound like the most codependent person whos ever posted here, and youd prolly end up being found swinging from the rafters with a dashboard confessionals song playing on repeat if you did that, so I say you are lucky youve found a girl willing to put up with you and who is at least a decent enough person that she keeps her cheating on you a big enough secret that you don't know. So yeah, just chalk it up as a mistake and go on with your happy life.

[SoloAJ]

Alobar,

Awesome.

-Solo

[guids]

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I had to make myself throw-up just to fall asleep the other night.

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wtf seriously?

You might have some issues asides from the whole not-sexing a willing female thing.

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His issue is that you are too naive and/or retarded to know if you did anything wrong or not. Think about this: if I came up to you, as a 24 year old male, and asked if I f'ed up because I mugged some old ladies, would you think Im retarded/out of touch with reality?

[terrapin314]

Lie.

If that fails, Lie.

No good will ever come from her knowing about this indiscretion.