As me about being a former swinger/sex freak

[Iconoclastic]

What's the address of the places in NYC that are still operational?

[KOTLP]

What led to you going to a shady underground club when you were only 17?

How did you go about finding clubs/parties?

[hoyasnaxa]

Come on, who is the famous celebrity you saw?

[bwana devil]

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I understand very clearly why men go to these places. But I've always been curious how women come to cross that threshold and say "ok". In your estimation are the women generally doing it to makes their man happy, or do they seem to be leading the charge as much as the men?


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the documentary i mentioned above this from what i understand. i hear the women they interview say theyre because they really enjoy it and it makes their relationship stronger.

a year later there are follow up interviews to see the impact on their lives. most relationships have ended badly and one woman who talked about how great swinging was cries during the followup saying she never wanted to do it in the first place and was pressured into it.

[bkholdem]

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What led to you going to a shady underground club when you were only 17?

How did you go about finding clubs/parties?

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I had a friend in High School who was really plugged into the urban punk scene, he was really an outsider at our high school but I was friendly with him. He used to hang out in the city all the time and I went with him a few times. Once we got fake ID's (he had one and took me to a place to get one) and went in.

After that I started going back by myself. From there word of mouth from people who frequent places like that and searching on the internet.

They even have magazines devoted to swinging where people post ad's. I did a couple real hot married chicks down where I went to college I met through the mags and some others too. The more people you meet and talk with, the more info you pick up.

[bkholdem]

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Come on, who is the famous celebrity you saw?

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It was someone who has been highly regarded as the hottest chick on the planet. That is all I am saying. I did not see her have sex but she engaged in some bondage ativity with the man she attended with and showed a lot of skin.

[amplify]

Got to be Pamela Anderson.

[It's Brandt]

Why the [censored] would you not just say who it is?

[bkholdem]

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What's the address of the places in NYC that are still operational?

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lol I haven't been there in 8-10 years so I have no idea what is still active. I"m pretty sure there are a few private swing clubs but the underground clubs where all sorts of crazy stuff took place are proably not allowed any longer (although they might be). DAS

[riverdance]

jolie and billy bob, obv