Need PUA advice

[NajdorfDefense]

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While you're sitting around waiting to make a move she's going to be banging other guys who didn't. Just take her out, get drunk and bang the crap out of her. It's probably what she wants and if you don't do it somebody else will.

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This is the best advice ever. After you are done doing this, do it to someone else the next weekend. Scratch that, do it that comming Wednesday.

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And since she's already banging multiple guys, avoid teh herp.

[nath]

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I didn't read all of the other posts

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Maybe you should have...

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I would just continue to try to bang her

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No, it's pretty clear that if OP continues to try to bang her, he will continue being the guy trying to bang her. OP needs to spend less time trying to bang her and more time actually banging her.

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if you can't seem to get into her gash soon

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Spoken like a true expert!

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If she has sex with you when she is sober, then you have it in the bag.

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Are you sure?

[NozeCandy]

I can't decide if installments are lamer than posting an enormous glob of text junk that 3% of people read. I'm leaning toward installments.

[Ctrl.Dominate]

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You're voluntarily taking the role of the pursuer which is placing you squarely on the friends ladder. Start snubbing her immediately, almost to the point of rudeness. This is your best shot and requires the least amount of effort.

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I like this line better after you've heard the "let's just be friends" shutdown. It is my last resort and is gold. Another idea is to start talking to her about other women you are meeting. Kinda like how she said she wanted to see John or whoever, but I would take it to another level and say something like "I wish I coulda seen Michelle this weekend, she is pretty cute" or "I met this cute girl named Amanda in English 101 and am going to try to get together with her. Do you think I have a chance?" If she is interested in you at all this will put her in a position were she has to start being a little more aggressive with you which is good because then you will be in control.

[Hollywade]

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Let’s call him John.

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Are you kidding me? We have no idea who you are or where you go to college. You can't tell us your friend's real name? Give me a break.

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I couldn’t tell if she wanted to play footsies or was just accidently bumping into me

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Are we in kindergarten? If so, maybe she does.

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I would have gladly paid for the entire thing, but didn’t want to come off as too nice/boyfriendish (bad play?)

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Who gives a [censored] who pays $7 for the pizza?

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I legitimately like her (bad play?)

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Obviously.

[Ctrl.Dominate]

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No, it's pretty clear that if OP continues to try to bang her, he will continue being the guy trying to bang her. OP needs to spend less time trying to bang her and more time actually banging her.


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I agree, but if he doesn't try, he will get nowhere. He hasn't tried hard enough.

And yes, if you can get her while sober you're in. I not talking about a relationship, I'm talking more in the terms of potentially steady ass. OP will then know he wasn't one of those she "regrets". He almost had her when she was drunk, but OP can't rely on getting her drunk everytime. From my experiences drunk girls make poor decisions. Slutty drunken girls make terrible ones.

BTW Nath, no WSOP BBV Graph this year?

[Bump_Bailey]

Friday go to a party (with or with out her) get drunk, find drunk girl, and [censored] drunk girl. Should be easy as that if you are in college.

[The Don]

You are in the friend zone my friend. Alcohol (and a hell of a lot of it) is the only thing that can possibly get you out of it, unfortunately only in the very short term (read: one night).

Advice for next time:

Less bullshitting and sober hangouts... just get down to business and she will have more respect for you. Everyone makes this mistake first semester of freshman year of college. I didn't have more than a one minute conversation with my long term F-buddy during my entire sophmore and junior year unless we were going out/partying etc and she was even more obsessed with me because of it. I would just talk to her on AIM once per week and say whats up in dining halls and the student union etc... Anytime either of us were drunk and I wasn't hooking up with someone else we'd get it on. I would rarely initiate.

Always seem in demand, never seem desperate. How well your conversations are going is not a great indicator of how 'in' you are... friends can have great conversations too. Save that for the pillow talk.

[The Don]

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You're voluntarily taking the role of the pursuer which is placing you squarely on the friends ladder. Start snubbing her immediately, almost to the point of rudeness. This is your best shot and requires the least amount of effort.

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Best advice by far. Again, no one realizes this first semester of freshman year... those who do first end up getting the most ass.

[nath]

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No, it's pretty clear that if OP continues to try to bang her, he will continue being the guy trying to bang her. OP needs to spend less time trying to bang her and more time actually banging her.


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I agree, but if he doesn't try, he will get nowhere. He hasn't tried hard enough.

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No, that's the exact opposite of what he needs to hear. He's been "trying" a ton. This girl has been ready to go for some time, and if he'd stop "trying" and just man up and make a move, he'd be in there.

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And yes, if you can get her while sober you're in. I not talking about a relationship, I'm talking more in the terms of potentially steady ass.

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I was being sarcastic because he's so obviously in if he has sex with her sober-- in fact, that's pretty much the definition of "in". And honestly in this case, who cares if she's drunk? It's college.

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OP will then know he wasn't one of those she "regrets".

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The wrong way to do this is to be the nice, sensitive guy who wants to make sure she won't regret it when he finally does sleep with her, so he never makes a move at any time he thinks it might be untoward or "taking advantage" of her.
The right way to do this is to [censored] her, then let her worry about whether or not she regrets it. If you're awesome (at life or in bed, preferably both) she won't. Unfortunately, based on this thread, OP seems unlikely to be either.

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BTW Nath, no WSOP BBV Graph this year?

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It's pretty much a straight line downward, unless trips to the Spearmint Rhino count as upswings.