Awkward situation with my buddy, his GF, and my Ex - Page 4

FlyWf · #31 10-20-2007, 09:54 AM

I disagree, you played this reasonably well. It sounds like Miguel isn't really grade-A friend material anyway, so [censored] any sort of "man rule" about not messing with his infidelity. But you aren't involved and it isn't your place to randomly call some dude's GF and rat him out. Providing some deep cover background to a trusted confidant of Brittany provides that information to the injured party without getting involved, if she didn't believe Blair she isn't going to believe you.

smoking blunt · #32 10-20-2007, 09:58 AM

gj ratting out ur buddy

RustedCorpse · #33 10-20-2007, 11:04 AM

So your goal is to [censored] Brittany? Because if you just want to say you're a "noble, caring and sympathetic" friend. Just [censored] tell her. At least deal straight up, with her, and your friend.

Let's assume that your goal isn't to look honest, noble and whatever, you're [censored] with a relationship that a) isn't yours b) shouldn't involve you in anyway if your penis is dry.

Understanding other people's relationships is simple. If your wang wang ain't in her or his who ha. You have no business in the hand.

tarheeljks · #34 10-20-2007, 11:29 AM

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dont betray this guys trust and go behind his back gossipping in his territory....

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lol @ this for being a reason not to act. it's not gossip if you know he did it, it's just meddling. if he doesn't want to it should be b/c he has no desire to meddle, not b/c he's worried about hurting this guy's feelings. exposing someone for wrong doing is not a betrayal of trust.