Ask me about : coming out - Page 36

SABR42 · #**351** 08-24-2007, 02:52 AM

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Also, serious question for Kolo:

Can you auto-fellate? If not, do you wish you could?

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I don't think this relates to being gay or not. 99.9% of all men wish they could do this and the other 0.10% lie.

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True. I guess it wasn't really a gay question, just in general.

FWIW I used to be able to do it when I was like 14, but my neck and back were sore for a week so I haven't done it since then lol.

Scotty. · #**352** 08-24-2007, 02:54 AM

When I see two guys making out, it makes me mildly uncomfortable. The thought of actually having sex with another man or seeing man on man porno is pretty gross to me.

Do you find it at all uncomfortable to see straight people make out? Are you grossed out by the thought of having sex with a woman, or by viewing heterosexual porno?

If the answers to the above are all "no", do you think that the reason I feel this way is because I am homophobic to a certain extent, or is this just a fairly natural reaction for typical heterosexual males?

Subfallen · #**353** 08-24-2007, 03:20 AM

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First of all, as a pastor, I wanted to weigh in. I won't even touch all of the discussion on the bible since 1) it would be the longest post ever and 2) you guys wouldn't believe me anyway...suffice it to say none of you have any idea about the historical accuracy of the bible nor any of the scholarly issures surrounding it and are merely expressing what you think. No big, but you are waaaaay off.

Secondly, re: Christians and homosexuals. Gays think 'church people' hate them because, well, church people hate them, and it is completely the fault of 'church people'. Somehow the majority of Christians have stopped loving people whom Jesus has never stopped loving. There's no way we can call ourselves followers of Christ while openly detesting people. It is a non sequiter.

But in all of these questions we're missing perhaps the most vital: OP, what was your relationship with your father from your earliest childhood? Was he abusive? Aloof? Unloving/uncaring? Absent? Because this is the case in the vastly overwhelming majority of homosexuals. See, I don't believe that gays are born that way, but I truly believe that *they* believe that they were born that way. Reason being, from their earliest rememberances, i.e. the time that heteros were noticing girls, they were noticing boys. What else could they believe than that they were born like that? Therefore, I do not believe that the vast majority of homosexuals chose to be so. However, science seems to believe that the relationship with the child and his/her father from a very young age actually determines these types of gender issues. Some wire seems to get crossed mentally/emotionally in the earliest stages of development. So, OP, what was your relationship with your father like?

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LOL, feel free to come on over to SMP and teach us all about the wonderful historicity of the Bible and how we are all way off. Only real Christians know anything about the Bible amirite?

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Oh yes, plz to be SMP'ing Passaman. I sometimes need reminding that approximate historicity is a most excellent basis for establishing metaphysical certainty on minor topics like the existence of an infinitely complex Deity that is overwhelmingly concerned with who is sucking whose cock.

kolotoure · #**354** 08-24-2007, 09:30 AM

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do you consider yourself more top or bottom, if you're only doing one for the night or w/e? Can you teach my gf awesome BJ tricks or sumthin?

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prob bottom, yes i probably could

kolotoure · #**355** 08-24-2007, 09:32 AM

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When I see two guys making out, it makes me mildly uncomfortable. The thought of actually having sex with another man or seeing man on man porno is pretty gross to me.

Do you find it at all uncomfortable to see straight people make out? Are you grossed out by the thought of having sex with a woman, or by viewing heterosexual porno?

If the answers to the above are all "no", do you think that the reason I feel this way is because I am homophobic to a certain extent, or is this just a fairly natural reaction for typical heterosexual males?

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heterosexual porn/making out doesn't gross me out and your reaction seems to be typical amongst hetero guys

ebepse · #**356** 08-24-2007, 11:22 AM

how come you just came out and you already are talking like youre a pro on the subject

ghostface · #**357** 08-24-2007, 11:37 AM

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do you consider yourself more top or bottom, if you're only doing one for the night or w/e? Can you teach my gf awesome BJ tricks or sumthin?

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prob bottom, yes i probably could

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whats ur bj count up to 2 days after coming out

kolotoure · #**358** 08-24-2007, 11:38 AM

idk

cwar · #**359** 08-24-2007, 11:58 AM

goodluck kolo, hope everything works out

Allinlife · #**360** 08-24-2007, 02:03 PM

props for you not leaving the thread after some ignorant people left rather hurtful questions/comments.

hope all works out..

I'm curious- do you have the streotypical "gay" way of talking? I'm wondering how common this is, cuz one of my HS friends came out this year, always kinda "talked" in a gay-way but people thought "he seems so gay that he can't be" and we were all shocked when he came out on facebook.