So I had a date today

[supafrey]

I don't know why any of this is that big a deal - this is gonna happen several more times to you, and this was a risk you took by mixing biz with pleasure. Suck it up, big boy, and show up to work like it's no big deal. There are worse things than getting turned down by 1 girl - going about your life like normal, brushing this off and actively pursuing another broad are ALL things that move you out of the "friends" funk that your in. Being sorry for yourself, putting up with girls that just want your friendship, and generally moping are what GET you slotted into this kind of [censored].

[prodonkey]

Who could not be attracted to the drizzle? come on.

[cynic757]

You should thank god she didn't kiss you as she likely had Ron's Sea-Man residue in her mouth.

I 2nd the be sexual around her thing. If she acts awkward about it then decide whether to just blow her off completely or if you are cool just joking around with her for fun.

[Turkish]

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I didn’t want to get off on the wrong foot by giving her the Spanish Inquisition about her "friend",

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Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisiton!!

[prodonkey]

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You should thank god she didn't kiss you as she likely had Ron's Sea-Man residue in her mouth.

I 2nd the be sexual around her thing. If she acts awkward about it then decide whether to just blow her off completely or if you are cool just joking around with her for fun.

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They weren't suggesting be sexual around her.. it's way too late for that. They were suggesting doing that to the next girl.

[Swede]

Schtick it in and you'll be fine. Trust me.

[cynic757]

Misread, but still applies.

One shoot down != give up.

If after making 'sexy eyes' at her 'crotchal region' she pukes then it is time to give up.

Or rape her.... or rape Ron and make her watch.

[Suiteness]

Offer a 3-some with Ron, it just might work.

[BillNye]

lol at 50% of the posters in this thread.

[kiddcheckers]

You definitely pooched the location. What chick wants to be seen kissing someone from the office at the company picnic? Especially someone everyone knows is not her boyfriend, or even someone she's been dating. This isn't the let's get wasted christmass party where it's okay to bone in the bathroom stall *brag*, it's the bring the kids company picnic.

That said, the fact that you picked her up and there was a guy there that she didn't define in some way is a bad sign off the cut. If she was very interested when you asked about him, she would have said "he's my gay hair stylist, my cousin, my roommates bf etc..." so as not to worry you.

So off the bat you were behind the 8 ball, but not out of it. You should have flirted at the picnic, a little 3 legged race, some innuendo about that, make sure she's sneaking touches back, then move the party to an evening location where you can progress from there.


cliffnotes:going for first kiss in daylight work environment is sure fail.